my cousin is having a b-day party and i'm pretty sure there will be beer. i know i WILL NOT drink but i don't want to lie to my parents about where ill be and whats going on but im close to my cuz and dont want to miss her birthday. i just want to go and hang out. oh and my boyfriend that my parents dont like will be there. this would be like the first time i have ever done something like this. what do i do???
2007-12-06 12:47:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I don't think you should go to this party. it sounds like you are asking for trouble.
2007-12-06 14:58:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not seem like the best thing to do because it might spoil your chance to go to this party. But, it is never a good idea to lie to your parents. If parents somehow find out that you lied, they will never be able to trust you and then you won't get to do anything!! If you tell the truth, they will trust you in the future and you might get more priveleges. It sounds like you just want to go see they guy that your parents don't like. Don't get started lying to your parents.
2007-12-06 12:53:47 · answer #2 · answered by CindyinAtl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if they dont know your going there then just tell them your going to your cousins house. and go early before people come and stuff and you'll survive. spend the night there or something that way they dont have to pink you up. and they wont find out if they dont come near the house and see a bunch of drunk people.
it would be the truth just not the whole truth. but not a lie.
2007-12-06 12:52:03 · answer #3 · answered by Jamie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell them your going to her party. If they don't ask if there will be alcohol then don't tell them. You can leave out the who will be there too. Unless they ask
then if they do tell them your responsible and know not to drink because you don't wanna ruin yours or anyone elses future.
2007-12-06 13:11:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them for permission to go.. Omit the negatives and promote the positive!
Good Luck!
2007-12-06 13:07:14 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Jack Shepherd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm don't tell your parents about the beer adn do not drink it cuz parents know when you drink. hope this helps
2007-12-06 12:52:31 · answer #6 · answered by @lexis 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be honest. Say you want to go, and you won't do anything they wouldn't approve of. They'll be impressed with your being so honest and direct, or at least i would be!
2007-12-06 12:55:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's your cousin bdayy so shouldn't your parents let you go? and besides as long as you dont drink and if your parents don't ask if there's going to be alcohol then your not really lying to them but honestly no matter how close i am to someone i never go to parties where theres alcohol i dunno dats juss me i guess
2007-12-06 12:51:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if it is your cousins bday just ask them if you can go its not like its a strangers house. They dont have to know that your bf is there.
2007-12-06 14:13:38 · answer #9 · answered by sweet redhead! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
som kids were arested for drinking...thier punishment: 30 hrs community service, no driving, and if you get caught again = juvi!!!!!
dont drink
2007-12-06 12:55:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋