what is up with me!?

Question

I'm beyond depressed doubt any one has reached my level of it,no good points in my life i can not be bothered to go to see any one about my problems im to stuben and laid back to do anything about it (off line) my self talk is pretty negative but i sometimes throw in the positive out looks on life to stop me doing something id regret..have a bad self image on my self not a clue what others see me as at all as so many people lie to you just to make you feel ok,i think im ugly a lot of the time but sometimes i don't its weird, i can not make friends with any one they seem interested in me when we first meet but then they notice i don't talk a lot and seem depressed and miserable..then they tend to leave me alone, i can not express my self for the life of me, i do not know what my interests are i have none im that depressed i lost it all.. my memory is bad but good, for instance some one asks what music do you like i couldn't say cause i forgot what types i like but i know when im alone :s

vhesponage.. i agree with you there.. but on the other hand i try way to hard and stress my self out and get no where so what ever i do i lose

Jamieee1..im not really in a bad mood ive been this way from the day i was born..i work out every day i go to a gym every now and then but mainly at home i do it. don't really talk to my mum as she is like the same doesn't show a lot of confidence in me and my dad is dead. i have some hobbys..not that i find it interesting just do it for the sake of something to pass time by

dunno how to see life as.. its just passing me by while im just watching others live and i have no clue how to 'live'

my mind is like to strong on the negative side..uncontrollable

i do go out with other people to like a pub or night club with people from my work place but i don't/cant enjoy my self i see them all being happy and wondering what the hell is going though there head all that is in mine is what am i doing here id rather be alone dwelling in my own thoughts

i do have times of when im just content feel very happy inside untill some one comes along and puts me down , like im happy inside but look depressed on the outside

Answer 1

Umm well i was like you aobut a year ago. We were going to go see a movie in the car and my mom asked me if i had any friends and stuff like that.. I notcied how depressed i was when we had the talk. Dont think aobut cutting yourself, thats just gonna make people think that you are weird and not be friends with you anymore. I really cant suggest much for you except talk to your parents. look at life with a positive attitude, if your the perfect student at school, become alittle mroe wild. Dont be afraid to get into trouble. its what ui do, i still get A's. Good Luck Bra!

Answer 2

Don't dwell on the bad!!
Change the way you think. Positive thoughts will help.
You dont have to go to a doctor just yet.. Go to google.com. Type in Depression symptons, Anxiety disorders, How to get self esteem. If you do feel that there really is just something wrong & you can't seem to figure it out tell a parent or friend. See a doctor, They will understand.
And Don't worry if you don't have an answer for somebody. Its okay to say I dont know.
Email me at [e-mail] if you wanna talk. I have been in your shoes! I feel for you!
You are gonna get through this!! Trust me. Just don't give up hope!!!!!!!!! Tomorrow is always a better day!

-sara-

Answer 3

Many people have reached your level of depression and have pulled themselves out of it with the help of family, friends, loved ones and a qualified professional. Sit down and write a list of what you see as negative in your life. What you would like to change in your life. Once you have this list take each item and write down why you want to change this and what you would have to do to change it. If you take one thing at a time it does not become so overwhelming and you see the results a lot sooner which will boost your mood, confidence and self image. Good luck to you

Answer 4

Trust me your not alone, i've been depressed for sooo many years i tend to cry for almost everything (i hate that) , and i used to get nervous alot too i dunno y... Dont feel bad about yourself many people in america are going thruogh the same thing your going through... The best thing u should do is talk it over with someone in private , like ur couselor or ur doctor, or maybe even your mom or dad... Just tell one of those people how u feel inside and whats goin on with u ,because they can do something about it, cause it wont make it worst for u , but it will make it better for u if u let ur feelings go... All that that u are going through (and of coarse , wat i went through) , might just have been part of growing up... Im sure the doctor would know... As for the dpression i kno this very cool website just to help u improve ur life u should chek it out as soon as possible... I kno it will help u... Hope i helped...

Answer 5

Talk to the people who truly care about you, like your parents, other family members (maybe brothers or sisters, cousins, etc.). I know it can sometimes seem like nothing is going right, but it will get better. Try picking up a hobby, something that will keep you busy. I know for me, I like to work on my scrapbook when I'm in a bad mood because it makes me forget about everything. Or, try getting a gym membership or even running around your block. Exercise is great when you're upset (it's a proven fact!). I hope that helped.

Answer 6

Just go get help. No you are not the only one who has felt this way. You won't get better if you don't . You scare me, my mother was just like you, refused treatment, too stuburn, she had all the excuses. She finally decided to try meds, she spent 1 month on them and threw them away because she felt too good and didn't like not having negative self talk and thoughts. one year later she died of cancer and she was a very unhappy person. She had been for 73 years. I figured her suffering had finally ended. If you want to make some friends you need to get your self some help. Meds aren't always forever and if you get yourself the right doctor you may not be on them at all.

Answer 7

You say people tell lies to make you feel better about yourself...well i dont know you so i have no need to lie and i think you sound like a really sensitive lovely guy. always always replace any negative thoughts that come into your head with good ones, please dont say you don't have any(this response is a condition of your low self esteem). you need to see your doctor and if they won't help, ask to see another in your practice. They are their to help. you say you can't be bothered going but again this is reaction from your illness...ps dont listen to "whats her face" who posted that you are a lazy boy, you will always get some muppet trying to bring you down...but thats only cause they want people too feel as miserable as them. i have been were you are and got help and medication..and it changed my life for the better. my brother commited suicide so i really think there is a link within some families regarding mental illness, the difference between me and him is that he didnt get help and now its too late. there are so many people suffering like you so please don't believe you are alone. If you want you can email me and i will try to give you some advice as and when you need it but you have to seek professional help...nobody can be expected to deal with these feelings alone.

Answer 8

Hey sounds rough. I am very sorry to hear. U should never look at urself as ugly, for everyone is beautiful in some way. Everyone has something unique about them. It just seems that u are focused on the bad that u are not seeing any good. Remember you only have one life to live, so live it well. If u need someone to talk to please feel free to contact me or email me. [e-mail]...take it easy!

Answer 9

its ok. you're not alone. many teens or adults (or kids) face the same problem as you every day. you should go to a phycologist (NO not because you're crazy) because they have studied the brain and its causes for depression for MANY years, and they know what to do to make your like better. not nessesarily by meds.....it could be as simple as "write a journal" or something like that! dont give up! you WILL get through this as we all do!

Answer 10

Okay. First of all, you NEED to stop thinking you are ALONE. BELIEVE me there are others, including my own self, that have felt the same way (i.e. "any one has reached my level"). You NEED to find someone, anyone to talk to. A friend, co-worker (not likely), family member, counselor...Please, find yourself help.