I'm 14 and masturbate about 4-6 times a day. Usually at night when theres "shows" on T.V. I feel guilty though watching those shows, but I still do because it turns me on. I also have a good imagination so I can make up scenarios in my head while jacking-off. Is it normal to jack-off that many times a day? Also, wha should I do about feeling guilty when watching porn?
2007-12-06 11:09:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Okay, first off at age of 14 you should masturbate as much as you want. It is good for you and for your reproductive system. As for watching porn you need to be careful and avoid it. Do not watch to much you will become addicted so that the only way you get aroused is with the intense pictures of the pornography. You should use your own imagination and do it as often as you want and skip the porn. Porn is not honest. All men are not that long, all women do not like to give oral sex. and no man can last as long as the male porn star. Remember they are actors and it is filmed and then the film is edited later. Give up the porn and you will feel less guilty.
2007-12-06 12:17:55 · answer #1 · answered by Geo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hm, well, you're 14, so i do want to say that it is fairly normal to masturbate that often.
however, if you do it all at once like at night, it isn't as good. keep it spread throughout the day, that way sexual tension can actually build in your body, making the orgasm more intense and satisfying.
also, don't do it to porn so much. use that active imagination of yours to create your own scenarios. like was mentioned earlier, if you do it to porn too much, you'll become addicted. porno addiction is not good.
as you get older, your hormones will calm down a bit, and you won't feel the need to masturbate as much. it should eventually decrease to about once a day, sometimes twice, which is the average for a healthy male.
as for the guiltiness, you shouldn't feel any. well, maybe about the porn, cause you really shouldn't watch it at your age, but hey, like everything else, in moderation, porn is a good thing. but if you feel guilty about watching porn, then don't. it's better for your mental health.
and, you have absolutely no reason to feel guilty about masturbating. if someone DIDN'T masturbate at your age i would be more concerned. masturbation is a normal, healthy part of life and puberty. have fun with it, and use it as an alternative to sex until after you're ready for something like that. and as i menyioned before, at your age, i would guess 4-6 times a day is common, i remember at that age i had a hard time keeping it in my pants and out of my hand! lol.
so yeah, chill out with the porn a little, and use that imagination, and don't feel guilty about jerkin it. it's normal and expected.
2007-12-06 21:12:10 · answer #2 · answered by dracogemini16 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why you are feeling guilty. Most everyone masturbates, (and just as frequently, or more), or has thought about it. It's okay.
But if you feel uncomfortable about it, don't do it. Think about it. Do you like what you are doing, then do it. If you have some moral hinderances or something that makes you feel guilty, then think about those. Whichever side wins out, follow.
Masturbation is okay, everybody does it. It's probably a societal thing as to why you feel guilty.
When I first learned how to masturbate, I did it all the time. Now I've moved on. You're just discovering stuff, have fun.
2007-12-06 19:18:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You do not have to feel guilty, there is nothing wrong with what you are doing. You can imagine anything you want when you masturbate, and you could think of the sexiest girl you know when you masturbate.
2007-12-08 07:56:34 · answer #4 · answered by Pauly W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4-6 times a day? .... don't you have any homework to do... lol?
Jacking off is normal.... just don't let it interfere with your social life. As for feeling guilty watching porn... ... I hope your mum catches you... then you will know about feeling guilty!
2007-12-06 19:15:09 · answer #5 · answered by Icy Gazpacho 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im 15, and same here. theres no side effects. great imagination to. why do you feel guilty? it's suppose to relieve stress. guiltiness adds it, so stop unless you start feeling good again
2007-12-06 19:22:57 · answer #6 · answered by Revan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u might feel guilt cause the other side of u know its wrong?
if your christian then ull understand
I masterbated before and every time i finished I felt a bit guilty
2007-12-06 19:40:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha dude i dont blame you
im 14 about to be 15 an i do that
all day too lol
2007-12-06 20:05:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You either stop jacking off, which you can't do, or stop whining about feeling guilty.
2007-12-06 23:15:42 · answer #9 · answered by Solo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't feel guilty
but don't do it as much
feels a lot better when you don't go for like 2 days
2007-12-06 19:23:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋