advice pleasee?

Question

hi all,
my ex and i broke up because he was always working and he never had time for me. we broke up about 2 years ago. after we broke up he would always keep in touch till this day. he calls me like every 3-4 weeks to see how i am doing? also, when he calls he wants to hang out and everytime i hang out with him we end up kissing (no sex) just kissing,,,so its not a booty call...im trying to figure him out..what does he want from?? does this make any sense at all?? cause im so confused as to why he hooks up with me when we hang out but we r not together...ive been dating other guys after him and i know that hes been dating other girls after me...i need help trying to figure this out??? im gonna ask him whats on his mind, but before i do this i just want everyones opinion...im curious

Answer 1

i think he is just as confused as u are, but if he really wanted to be with you he would make time for u, i dont care how busy he is. he likes u , but not enough to be in a relationship with you, he will find someone else and never look back to u, i think u are wasting ur time if u think it will ever progress from where u are now. go find someone that cares about you and will give u 110%, and quit letting him string u along until he finds something better

Answer 2

Your ex still love you and I am sure he would like to restart a real relationship with you . What about your feelings toward your ex Its the first big question you have to ask yourself and answer it with honesty . And if you ever decide to give a shot to a new relation with your ex go in counseling because the same problem will come back really fast . All the WHYs had never been resolved Luck