tell me what you think ?
2007-12-06 10:00:12 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
yeah i think it is...i mean im only 16...but think about it...you have soo much time ahead of u to have fun...do u really wanna be tied down w/ responsibility of a child?
2007-12-06 10:03:21 · answer #1 · answered by Bev♥ 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Like everyone has said, it depends on the person.
I am turning 20 in January and just started my third trimester.
I am married to the father, we have our own place, Financially we're comfortable. I don't work, just him[Its been a very rough pregnancy, bed rest, and hospitalization]
This was a planned pregnancy, and I learned everything I could first AND Started my prenatals, etc.
My reasoning to having one so young, was that my mother died from cancer at age 44, before my sister was 18,.. I just have a fear of this happening to me. It has been hard on my sister. I've said this before and people said it was a dumb reason because it was unlikely.. Her mother had the same kind, and her mother as well. I have all ready had a polyp removed.
Good Luck with what you decide!
Edit - Was reading through answers, to the person who said you cant make good money till 22, we pull about 4k a month, and thats only my husband working. More comfortable than most.
2007-12-06 10:19:37 · answer #2 · answered by MadameXCupcake 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does depend on the person. Im 21 and 27 weeks pregnant. It was unplanned but its my fault for not being careful. At this point I love my baby so much its a boy and I would never change this for the world. If I could tell other people though I would say to wait. Im at home while all my friends are now drinking age at the clubs and having funn like a 20, 21 year old should be having.
2007-12-06 10:05:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Personally I think so. Depending on where you are in your life and what your goals are, it may or may not be something you are ready for. Children will be one of your major responsibilities. Your 20's are also the peak of your young lived life. I prefer the idea of doing all the things I ever wanted to do and accomplish before bringing another life into the world. I think I'd have more to offer if I can teach by example.
2007-12-06 10:06:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Really it is up to you what you want to do dont let these ppl on here bully you, not everyone does but some do. I first got pregnant at 16-17 im now almost 21 and my son is nearly 3. Im pregnant again and at the moment how things are and my goals it doesnt include another child so im getting an abortion i know that sad and mean to some ppl but some times you need to do what is best for you and this is best for me and my future that i want for my future children. and ive done two courses and everything is working out for me. So yea go with what ever you want to do, having a baby is not all fun and you need to remember that they depend on you for everything. Life is always filled with ups and downs and no one is perfect.
Hope this helps
2007-12-06 10:12:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily, depends on the person. In my opinion, if your married, your both ready for a baby, and you both are ready to put your careers aside, then I'd say its okay. But if I were you, I'd wait. Enjoy the time you have with your husband alone, go on a vacation, get to know each other better. Cause when you have a baby, say goodbye to free time, vacations, alone time, etc. Just be ready for a full time commitment to the baby and really think through it before you decide. Hope that helped. Good Luck :)
2007-12-06 10:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by Jen 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i am 20 and i have a 2yr old boy and a 11 mo old boy with a girl on the way.. im 35 weeks preggo.. i will be 21 in feb.. all was planned. i dont want any kids by the time i hit 21.. therefore all my kids will be grown by the time im 38.... me and boyfriend have our own house car and everything we need.... so i dont think 20 is too young.. i love being this young having kids.. we have been graduated from school i stay with the kids and he works... good luck and dont be scared
2007-12-06 10:33:24 · answer #7 · answered by proud mommy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 00:41:21 · answer #8 · answered by chappel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to young, it depends on your job and what kind of support you have, I'm 18 and 7 months pregnant so it all depends on how your life works
2007-12-06 11:00:37 · answer #9 · answered by Your Mom Says Hi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a tricky question. it really depends on ur situation. I don't think it would hurt to wait a little bit but the most important thing is if you can truly love and nurture a baby then thats what honestly counts.
2007-12-06 10:04:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
im 20 and 7 months pregnant.
Me and my bf are getting married in January before our baby comes, we owe it to her. Were both currently working full time with high hopes to move out before shes here. This was not planned & i wish i could have waited before getting pregnant. But im happy & i love my baby girl already!
make sure ur financialy, physicaly & mentaly ready
2007-12-06 10:04:36 · answer #11 · answered by Lils 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋