I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year and now i just dont find sex enjoyable i always refuse sex and have fantasies of having sex with other people i love my boyfriend to bits tho i would never cheat on him and i do not want to leave him why am i feeling like this tho?
2007-12-06 09:05:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Yeah thank you Sex is not really a big thing for me how ever i would like to have it I cant imagine the most of my life with out sex could you?
2007-12-06 09:17:06 · update #1
That's an interesting scenario. I wonder if you were attracted sexually to your boyfriend when you started going out with him. My guess is that this situation is going to cause a fairly big problem in your relationships as MOST modern relationships involve sex. You might need to see someone about it.
Does your boyfriend know how you feel?
I'm wondering if you have had a deep-seated trauma previously - perhaps betrayal, having had someone cheat on you - or being coerced to do something sexually you were not ready for or comfortable with (child sexual abuse / group sex / BDSM / whatever) ...
I think that if this is the case, you might need some heavy duty therapy to get to the bottom of it.
2007-12-06 09:09:32 · answer #1 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may love him, but not lust after him. It could be that he just doesn't make you horny. If sex is an important thing for you in a relationship, then you might have to let him go. You'll be miserable the rest of your married life like this until the divorce.
2007-12-06 09:13:44 · answer #2 · answered by Jdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might wanna try new positions>
They are always fun
2007-12-06 09:09:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋