I told him that if he wants to have sex with me that he has to wear a condom, and I'm standing by that. He said that "it hurts more" and it feels like you're doing it through a piece of plastic, but really, i could care less. Any suggestions of what I should say to him?
2007-12-06 08:09:32 · 23 answers · asked by perhaps_pc 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
then tell him no sex!
2007-12-06 08:12:33 · answer #1 · answered by Worried wife 3 · 7⤊ 1⤋
decreased sensation is a difficulty with all condoms- a minimum of in the event that they're thick sufficient to do the interest they're predicted to do. you are able to proceed to purpose different manufacturers to work out what fits him suitable, yet interior the top it is going to possibly come all the way down to making a call between risking parenthood and somewhat much less sensation. as far as non-hormonal delivery administration, you are able to ask your gyn to greater healthful you for a diaphram. In conscientious use, the prospect of being pregnant is with reference to a similar for the two the condom and diaphram. It must be put in in basic terms before intercourse, and must be left in place for numerous hours afterwards, and you will could use a spermicidal jelly alongside with it. it truly works as a barrier, at the same time with the spermicide, and has a failure fee of approximately 10-15% in case you verify out today info. I used one for years, as i will't take the pill- and none of my little ones have been the two surprises or injuries. you additionally can evaluate an IUD. None of those will take care of you a hundred%, from the two being pregnant or sexually transmitted ailments, yet they're greater suitable to the male substantial different than condoms in many cases are. in any different case, the condom remains your suitable risk-free practices against parenthood. in case you do in comparison to those strategies, then the only selections you have are taking the possibilities of being pregnant or abstaining.
2016-10-02 07:04:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he wants to shell money for child support.i always used a condom with my girlfriend but unfournately the one time we didn't use one we both thought it was safe to well we were wrong and she is 6 months pregnant.you can tell that or until you put a condom i'm not going to have sex end of story you don't like it then go take a hike
2007-12-06 08:25:37 · answer #3 · answered by gregg98133 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Either he wears the condom or your not having sex with him. End of discussion. Your the one who could get pregnant, not him.
2007-12-06 08:21:05 · answer #4 · answered by Jazzy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay girl, Simply tell him " you know what I'm not going to be a mom! That's not your damn decision okay because I know your not ready to be a dad and I am not going to ruin my life so that you can have your little theory of non hurting sex or pleasure. So if you keep asking me, get lost! Go find a girl who will want to have sex like that and want babies right now!!!" Ya that will tell his butt down. Be strict with him girl! Don't let him think that its okay to ask you that kind of crap, If you already made it clear that you don't want to!
2007-12-06 10:04:19 · answer #5 · answered by sweetheartforever 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off, he is lying. It does not hurt more and if it's you're first time, you won't know the difference. So, I don't think you should have sex with him AT ALL, regardless of whether he decides to wear it or not. If he's lying to you, he's not worth it. Be careful.
2007-12-06 08:16:28 · answer #6 · answered by Dev B 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't have sex with him if he is refusing to wear a condom! Be smart and protect your body. You're doing the right thing.
2007-12-06 08:13:41 · answer #7 · answered by Krissy 6 · 7⤊ 2⤋
its funny that he says 'like doing it through a piece of plastic'. lol, u ARE doing it through a piece of plastic. Plus, you are making the right choice by protecting yourself. Abstinence abstinence abstinence! no condom= no sex
As the Soup Nazi from Seinfeld would say: NO SEX FOR YOU!!!.............................NEXT!!
2007-12-06 08:36:52 · answer #8 · answered by SarahJ123 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
nothing more...I think you had it right the first time, if you want to have sex...wear a condom! There are many different kinds out there...get a bunch and let him have a condom buffet!!!
2007-12-06 08:13:09 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley B 2 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Refuse the sex! I am willing to say he will come around after awhile. You dont want to deal with pregnancy if you are not ready. Plus STD's!!!
2007-12-06 08:14:13 · answer #10 · answered by lhubbs80 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
No Glove, No Love. End of story.
If he gets frisky and refuses to put a raincoat on Willie before he goes out to play, then you simply get out of bed, grab your clothes and walk out.
2007-12-06 08:20:34 · answer #11 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋