What was your first date after divorce like? I am a 26 year old single mother of 1 and I am going on my first date tomorrow. I'm nervouse; what was is like for you? The first date, first kiss, everything.
2007-12-06 07:22:34 · 11 answers · asked by Just little ole me 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thank you for the great answers so far. I know the guy I'm going on a date with, so that is a little reassuring. He is my brother-in-laws friend that i see two or three times a year.
2007-12-06 08:02:49 · update #1
It was a little awkward, but then again sitting down and getting to know any person can be a little awkward at first. Go in with your eyes open and don't have really high expectactions---take it for what it is---a date. I wouldn't get into the heavy issues in your life either, like the divorce, etc. Even if you're asked about it, I wouldn't get into too much detail. Keep it lighthearted and fun---that's what dating is about. Kissing won't happen until you're comfortable, and if that happens on the first date, then you've found yourself someone worth seeing again! Good luck to you!!!
2007-12-06 07:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by Marina 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had soooo much fun. We went to a comedy club and then out for a mile high pie after....love chocolate!!! I didn't kiss him...the first kiss after I separated was with a guy about six months later....i am married to him now...he is smart, sexy and I think really hot...when he kissed me he thought I was having an asthma attack because I couldn't catch my breath...it was really funny. I don't have asthma.
2007-12-06 15:27:50 · answer #2 · answered by Kaboom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not divorced widowed...but i believe the feeling is the same.....Scary as Hell.
Nervous as a school girl.....giggled and played with my hair....I didn't kiss the first date.....didn't do anything.....Hold off....you don't want to give your heart away to a Rebound. :-)
2007-12-06 15:30:11 · answer #3 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it was nerve-wracking and didn't end well. but the next guy i went on a date with it was much better. practice makes perfect! and by the way, sex is much better with my bf that i have now than my exhusband :P
2007-12-06 15:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by jenisilly80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just trust your instincts and this time, do not let him push you into anything you are not ready for. Make sure you are dating a man. No more "guys" for you.
Good luck. I will pray for you.
2007-12-06 15:26:54 · answer #5 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't know . Haven't been able to bring myself to dating again. Not even after 2 years. Let me know.
2007-12-06 15:26:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't know, I am still married to the same man for 20 years. Just be yourself.
2007-12-06 15:28:04 · answer #7 · answered by PANGTA 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Hunny, never been there, but you'll do fine..GOod Luck, and have some fun>>>>>>
2007-12-06 15:35:50 · answer #8 · answered by eeyore6838 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are young it is like riding a bike let it come natural
2007-12-06 15:26:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was OK-don't talk about your ex too much tho!
2007-12-06 15:27:31 · answer #10 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋