Okay i have this social studies and science teacher and aparently he is perverted, well thats what most kids think. Anyways iv not really ever though about him like that cuz he is a pretty nice teacher, but today last period, we were in science, i was wearing like a white undershirt that came down to like 3 inches below my neck and i had an over shirt on top of that, anyways i asked him about the homework, he told me to stand up for some reason, so i did, and then he was like okay i am going to try to put this so im not being rude, then he asks, where am i looking when im talking to u so im like, umm idk at the class, and then hes like no, DOWN UR SHIRT! i mean i think he meant like it looks like i am looking down ur shirt or sumthing but i like zipped up my overtop so fast I WAS SO SCARED. then he is like im not looking or anything and im not trying to embaress u but im trying to save my own ***, what the hell does he mean, WE R IN GRADE 7 and i got sooo scared i wanted to cry,
2007-12-06 07:06:07 · 10 answers · asked by lolo 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
this was like an hour ago and i feel so scared, i dont know what he meant, maybey it wasnt like what i though. I didnt think my shirt was THAT LOW and even if, he didnt have to be all i can see down ur shirt he cuda just said, zip up ur shirt or sumthing like that, now i feel super scared and i dont know what to do, im afraid my parents will just get mad at me for having my shirt low, WHICH I REALLY DIDNT MEAN! it just happened and i really need advice, i am so scared i can barely focus on my homework
2007-12-06 07:08:30 · update #1
TO ALL THOSE WHO ARE SAYING DRESS MORE APROPRIATLY, I AM AN HONOR STUDENT, I WOULD NEVER EVER EVER DRESS INAPROPRIATLY!
2007-12-08 06:48:20 · update #2
lolo, this is smthng I thnk u need 2 share w/parents. I mean that's what there 4! To protect u + make u feel safe. Give them a chance to do there job. Both u + them will appreciate it. Him doing this is so inappropriate. Ur sharing about it might save someone else from the embarrasment u went thru or worse. Good luck. No 1 deserves to be treated the way u were. Bad man!
2007-12-06 10:44:46 · answer #1 · answered by coach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all it seems like u r beating ur self up pretty bad about this. this iz not ur fault so relax. i think he meant ur shirt is too low because he can see it on the other side of the class but he shouldnt be lookin there in the 1st place. you feel pretty uncomfortable about him so try to ask if you can switch classes. i cant blame u, im a guy, but i'd be pretty scared if that happened to me to and any1 would feel the way u r now if it was them so just take it easy it's not ur fault. the way i see it u have 2 choices : stay in his class and keep ur distance and try asking a friend or you will have to tell ur parents and tell them no1 else was even looking except him and have ur parents switch u out. im sorry i cant be more help but that is all i can think of.
2007-12-07 11:06:08 · answer #2 · answered by amjad e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry you are so scared, but, you have learned an important lesson and that is to dress appropriately. I agree with the answer that advised never being alone with him.
Be at peace, take a deep breath slowly breathing it out and then get on with your homework.
Life can hold embarrassing and awkward moments so be glad you have learned something about life and get on with what you have to do. I wish you well.
2007-12-06 13:22:18 · answer #3 · answered by jom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw try not to worry. just make sure that tommorow you wear a shirt that covers you good for your own sake. you know so he doesnt like look at you. if he does anything like that again to you or anyone else consult a teacher or principle!! you must! i know thats not something you would wanna do but last year therre was a teacher like that a a few girls reported it to the principal. then he was put on probation. just try not to think about it as of right now.
2007-12-06 07:14:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're at school and in the 7th grade and he's your teacher, that is very inappropriate and I would like to say that I think you need to tell the main office! He made you feel uncomfortable you have the right to let someone know. I support you in that, it may be scary, but you need to tell someone, another adult, not student. Especially if he did that in front of the class, who knows what else he could have said to someone else.. You go and take care of yourself!!!
2007-12-06 07:16:06 · answer #5 · answered by JK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear shirts that cover you up more and if he keeps stars at you or makes a comment like that again, go and talk to someone,it doesn't matter who you tell as long as they are a part of the school administration. it sounds like he was just telling you to cover up more cuz i have this teacher, and she's a chick, who does the same thing, she tells them in some inapropriate way to cover up more. so just wear better shirts and if he does somthin else to you that makesyou feel uncomfortable, just tell someone from your school.
2007-12-06 07:23:24 · answer #6 · answered by Kamikazi Kala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your really scared you could ask the principle to change to a different class that period..or you could just forget about it and if he does something else just report him to somebody
2007-12-06 07:11:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dress more modest and never be in a room with him alone.
2007-12-06 07:15:41 · answer #8 · answered by Carl W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is what you are "thinking" about what happened, that is scaring you. BE HERE NOW!
Peace and Blessings.....
2007-12-06 07:37:14 · answer #9 · answered by Premaholic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your school councilor, if your still bothered about it.
2007-12-06 07:12:40 · answer #10 · answered by judithgreanwood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋