I feel confused about life, myself, everything! I don't know who I am or who my friends are or who to be!! Why am I feeling this way and how do I fix it?!!
2007-12-06 07:05:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
There are many different reasons possible why you are confused. A precise answer depends on this but in general I would say that confusion can be seen in a positive way. It shows that there is a transition, what means you are moving from one position into another. It is positive because most people are stuck in their established position and nothing can be done to move them if they are not ready. So you are privileged. This is a state of transition and you need to move on. What you can do? If you don't know who you are, then you should find out about it. Get to know yourself! Investigate and ask yourself questions. Be critical about the answers you will find, most are coming out of the established thinking. You don't want to fall back into this? Of course not, so go forward. Don't be afraid to enter into new fields of being. Observe yourself and your surrounding. Find out about human nature, and then you will understand, what moves people and why they are stuck... Look behind the appearance; be aware that people are pretending. They all have a self-image they try to live and this creates a lot of disappointment and so people are reacting all the time. Find out about it and observe yourself. Be aware of your own reactions; try to stay calm and relaxed. You can do some special exercises, for example yoga or meditation. You need to move your body enough and it is important to eat the right food that influences your mental and emotional balance. There's a lot more you can do...
Life is a challenge and it will be positive if you accept the challenge. Go for it and ask questions...
BeiYin
PS: I give you the link for an exercise you can do, it is easy and very effective...
2007-12-06 09:02:22 · answer #1 · answered by BeiYin *answers questions* 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to feel this way. I think that everyone gets confused about who they are or who their friends at least once in their life. Don't try and think too hard about it. Eventually as time goes on, you'll develop into the great person that you want to be. You could always make a list of your likes, your dislikes, your interests, and then figure it out.
2007-12-06 07:14:55 · answer #2 · answered by skrdude8389 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are what you are, not what you "think" about yourself...
BEING is an art form....
2007-12-06 07:39:30 · answer #3 · answered by Premaholic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋