confused! DO I LIKE HIM OR NOT?? wtf am i lying to my self???

Question

I fell for this boy at school he seemed like a realy sexy nice funny loving person that realy liked me intill i saw that he flirts wit other girls all the time!!!!! !!<<<<<
~~IM So shy around him~~~ !!!
so i start saying to my self i dont like him my brains tryina make me like him and im trying so hard not to like him i know its weird!!!!!!!
but then again i wana like him!!! knowing
hes still a player though!!!
BUT today!!!!!!! he came up to me and gave me a front body hug and holy sh*** made chills run up my spine!!!! .............>>>>..how do i get over him when i realy dont want to WTF!!!!!!<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<...

Answer 1

Thanks for the advice! Yeah, that guy friend is mine is pretty crumby. Hah! Been in this situation also. You just have to go with the flow. Get to know him better and get the real story. Guys like him are flirty because they don't have a girlfriend so they figure "Hey, i'm single. Why not flirt?" Just don't give it your all yet. Once you get to know him, you'll see what type of person he is. Don't worry, things will either progress or you'll find out he's just a flirt who would prefer living the single life. Good Luck!

Answer 2

lol. it happens. these kind of guys know how to put this effect on women, that why they're players. right now, he probably doesn't respect you all that much, he knows you want him and if he wanted you he could get you. the best chance you have of winning him over OR pushing him away is to stop playing itno his flirting. if he see's you can't be charmed that easily, he will either a) enjoy the challenge or b) back off because you're obviously not a sucker. thats what i would do. good luck, returning the love(:

Answer 3

ah c’est la vie… don’t see the problem here… if you two were an item would be a different story until such commitments are made there is nothing to be upset about… enjoy these strong feelings even as they twist your gut…