Please help!?

Question

I really can't deal with this anymore.and by this i mean my life. i am in 8th grade going to highschool and i just can't take it. my parents set really high standards and every time i do something wrong lately it just gets worse with them. i mean they don't abuse me or hit my in any way, but still. they are calling me a sissy and baby, i can deal with it like if it was a kid at school, but its not, its my own parents. my sister does that and even worse things to me and my parents don't do anything about it. like last week my sister gave me a scar under my eye for yelling at her to get out of my room. then guess what my mom did she said it was my fault for provoking her into a fight and yelled at me. just for the record my sister is 11 and i am 13. then there is school and i just can't take it. my girlfriend broke up with me last week and i just don't know what to do. i am considering suicide what should i do please help. give me some answers and please no stupid comments.

Answer 1

Ok...first when you are being called names..especially demeaning names, that is ABUSE. It is emotional abuse. Do you have any aunts or uncles you can go stay with?

Trust me when I say this....regardless of what you are going through or what your parents say they love you very much. Please do not consider ending your life EVER!

You need to call someone who can guide you. Can you go to your high school counseling office and tell them what's going on? School is supposed to be a safe place.

Check out these websites:
http://www.teencentral.net/
http://www.neoteenhelp.org/

Remember you are someone who is worth every minute you breath!

Do not consider SUICIDE!

Please feel free to write on here anytime!

Answer 2

You need to enlist the help of an adult. A teacher, a counselor from school, a friends parents, a relative, anyone. You need to talk to them and get some help. What they are doing is abusing you. They should not call you names and put you down. You should be able to feel safe and secure in your own house. Suicide is not the answer, it never is. If you are really feeling this you need to call the suicide hot line and talk to someone trained in this. The number is 1-800-SUICIDE OR 1-800-273-TALK. Do not put this off, call and talk to someone. If your sister was in your room when you did not want her to be how did you provoke her? Even if you did hitting you in the face is unacceptable and your mother should not condone it. Make that phone call son.

Answer 3

Hun don't result in suicide it's not worth it talk to your parents and let them know how YOU feel or talk to a school counsler your 13 you have your whole life a head of you ,if your gf broke up with you it's her loss you are too good for her you seem like a really sweet kid and you can do anything you want to in life and if you feel bad just talk to somebody cause talking really helps good luck Hun,

Answer 4

first off i think your parents have horrible parenting skills...the name calling is bull. You need to talk them about how you feel that's very unfair....and as for the suicide thin don't do anything permanent for a temporary reason...the hurt will go away but there's no way to bring back life.

Answer 5

You need to talk to someone!! Talk to a counselor at school or a neighbor someon you trust! Suicide is never a good way out!! Please confide in someone and talk things out. It will make you feel better and maybe they can help you decide how to handle things!

Answer 6

you should call CPS. that aint right. they're doing what is called emotional abuse. (for the record, thats illegal)
just whatever you do, do NOT commit suicide. remember God still loves you for you. not what you do.

Answer 7

grow up, I am 15 and have seen people get shot and die. My parents hate me and yell all the time. get over it and grow up son