Fine, I get it but it creates problems when I want to be me. What should I do then?

Question

I can adjust to anything and I am very social but my boyfriend is the complete opposite of me. That makes it very hard for both of us because we both want the other to be happy.

Answer 1

be yourself

Answer 2

Danger, danger Will Robinson.
Find someone who's more like you. Social recluse is difficult to live with.

Answer 3

You can have your cake and eat it too.... Try this... Take one night where you guys be social butterflies and then one night where you're home hermits... Spend time both ways and then that way you don't have to change... and neither does he.