does successful means that,you are able to win peopel`s heart on their perception about you?but how is this possible when ourself can even trust our selve and we know that we are not that perfect in order to wins people..but should we lie to ourselves to win others heart when we know this is only our limit?it seems that when you are likable to everyone you will be a star....because when many doesnt like you will only make people hate and begin to cause you trouble but how can i control l things like that when ourselve have our problem?
2007-12-06 03:00:29 · 8 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sometimes people confusing...as to which one should we follow?who do you think we should follow an example?
2007-12-06 03:01:35 · update #1
Successful could mean any number of things depending on the person you ask. But to answer your question I feel that though I may not always be able to win over most of the people I meet and that my first marriage failed that I have been successful with the the friendships I have developed in my life. I find no reason to not be myself, I'm not perfect and never will be. No one is for that matter, I am just who I am and don't feel the need to lie about it just to win over the affection or friendship of other people. Perhaps I don't have hundreds of friendly acquaintances but I do have a very close knit group of friends and they are as important to me as my family. Then by your definition of success I do feel extremely successful.
2007-12-06 03:16:16 · answer #1 · answered by FinallySmiling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being successful in relation to your question... being a star, is like faking it till you make it, ya know? I mean, even real Hollywood stars have insecurities... The confidence that they portray is basically part of an act.. granted, some of it is very real and then it borders on being conceit. Being popular... well even the President of the US was elected with fifty percent of the people disliking him. And it's that way for everyone else too. Some people will dislike you no matter what you do, say or portray. But real confidence comes from within and if you want to win people over you have to first be nice... and then also be interested in them. And also, find your strengths. If you are lacking in one area, make sure you emphasize your strong points cuz no one is perfect.
2007-12-06 11:23:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I consider myself successful, and i tell you it's lonley at the top! lol...
It turns out the the majority of the poeple are poorly educated and broke... so i would suggest that if you want to be happy, just be yourself, and success will follow, no matter how well or bad you do.... because in the end, your friends will be there for you unless, you become soooo successful that you put yourself over them... then you will be on top with no friends, just like me... lol like i said it's lonley at the top? Can you handle it?
2007-12-06 11:54:56 · answer #3 · answered by Latin G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what you think of yourself is what makes you a successful person not what others think about I mean if you are confident in yourself well then everyone will see that and will be confident in you as well good luck sweetie hold your head high
2007-12-06 16:27:35 · answer #4 · answered by ღKrissyღ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sucess to me is happy in your own skin and happy with your life
2007-12-06 11:07:48 · answer #5 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me, success means being contented and happy with yourself and your life. really, what more does anyone need?
2007-12-06 11:05:29 · answer #6 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what I say..WHAT?
2007-12-06 11:14:47 · answer #7 · answered by cooter726 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what???
2007-12-06 11:12:48 · answer #8 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋