As much as I love him I have no choice but to leave him cause he hates my children.
2007-12-06 02:53:37 · 10 answers · asked by hauntedcafe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Did you really need to ask this question and why aren't you gone already!?!? How did you fall in love w/ someone that hates YOUR CHILDREN? I hope your kids did not sense these feelings from this man and more important I hope they never felt second to this jerk. Tell him peace. Be strong and positive that a good man that will love you and your children is in your path.
2007-12-06 03:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why did u hook up with him for in the first place then?? was the sexual aspect the reason you got to gether with him? i only ask because its not love u are refering to but lust.. love will accecpt not only you but your children too. I AM 56 i met a woman that was 42 when we first started to talk over the internet through a christian dating site,,
this was a little over 2 years ago, i started tohelp her out financially with her childrens education a few months after wards ,
she has 4 children all of whom are legally of age adults. well all but one and he soon be 18, the point is this if u love a person and know the have children you then work together in love and respect to make a marriage and a family . it will take compromises and you do this out of love for love is not selfish ,.
love is not puffed up read 1 corinthians chapter 13 in any version of the bible,,
if u dont have one or you dont believe it can help u then u make a big mistake,, , because i believe in the bible i have been supporting the household of my finace and she is living like ten thousand miles away >> she lives in the philippines ,, one boy the oldest is almost finished his college the other two the , are nurse in practise and maybe another year and 3 months or so to go before they graduate ,, financially its rough and the youngest son has to wait , fiances are not enough to allow all togo one is helping out by selling fish in the markets but nurse in practise have to study and do time in a hospital settingmm '
my fiance'S DAUGHTER HAS A 1 YEAR OLD daughter too. that makes her education top priority. WELL SHE ALMOST ONE AT LEAST
its hard when the father of the children abandon them and the mother , every child needs a father image in their life that loves them personally ,, sometimes it just doesnt happen in todays society, dont ever accept a man that wont accept your children..
love sacrifices for the others .. , think about it ,, bro , murray
2007-12-06 11:27:22 · answer #2 · answered by mjbrightergem33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it there your self,,,,, leave him.
Keep him as just a friend.
There are Plenty of guys out there willing to accept the whole package.
Being a Mother is Forever!
I was with a man for 4 years, he has 2 children, his ex was killed in an auto accident, he didn't even take his own flesh and blood but gave them up to the grandparents,,
I RAN OUT OF HIS LIFE
2007-12-06 11:05:43 · answer #3 · answered by Teresa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your children come first! Don't put your children through that kind of torment. If he hates them, chances are your children can pick up on that. How can you love someone who hates your children? If anyone told me they hated me kids, I would be ready to hurt them!
2007-12-06 16:45:38 · answer #4 · answered by dreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u seem to have an idea as to wht to do. The guy's not really worth all the trouble ur taking to get to do sumthing...DUMP him.If sum1 really luvs u he'll accept u on whole with ur children.
2007-12-06 10:58:41 · answer #5 · answered by nicky 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have bore the kids in your womb and raised them since their birth. They are an integral part of you.You just should not abandon them. Though you have strong feelings of love for this man, he does not have any love for you.He is taking you to meet his selfish motives only.Your decision to part with him is a wise decision.
2007-12-06 11:14:02 · answer #6 · answered by yogeshwargarg 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you bet. if the creep hates your children. what the hell would you want to be with him in the first place. the creep was a kid him self once. A---R S--LE
2007-12-06 11:00:55 · answer #7 · answered by willy wom bat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing!
if you love a person, you should accept him/her as a whole...
as a parent, your kids should be the number one priority of your life
2007-12-06 11:08:44 · answer #8 · answered by ♀ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your children always, always, always come first. Need me to repeat that? ALWAYS!
2007-12-06 12:45:57 · answer #9 · answered by Poppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duh, dump him!!! There's someone out there that will love your children as much as they love you. Dont EVER settle.
2007-12-06 11:00:04 · answer #10 · answered by summergirl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋