We are going to couples counselling but my husband cannot come to our next appointment. I still want to go. Will the counsellor see me by myself or does my husband have to be there?
2007-12-06 02:19:46 · 9 answers · asked by lucy m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Talk to your counselor first, but this maybe a chance for you to speak more openly about your true feelings on the matter.
2007-12-06 02:37:40 · answer #1 · answered by schneider2294@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not go alone? What's the difference? Your relationship ended when you got married. Good luck. If you are in counseling it is way over. Get divorced and never get married again.
2007-12-06 03:22:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good marital counselor will NOT see one of the partners separately as this will create trust issues, which will work against counseling.
2007-12-06 04:15:55 · answer #3 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife & I always see our counselor separately, & only go together every once in a while.
How can you be honest about personal thoughts & feelings with your husband there?
2007-12-06 03:32:13 · answer #4 · answered by Orestes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-02-16 23:57:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, it ok if u go alone once in a while
2007-12-06 02:40:21 · answer #6 · answered by Vio K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can go alone.
2007-12-06 02:26:34 · answer #7 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely. sometimes it's a good idea to have that one on one with your therapist.
2007-12-06 03:03:47 · answer #8 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes go by yourself
2007-12-06 02:22:21 · answer #9 · answered by abc 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋