This guy I like.He has said he likes me. I knocked him back as we were both in relationships. He persists. I'm free now but one thing keeps bothering me.He is an awful flirt, don't mind that, but this one girl, she is a stunner and a major flirt herself.He likes her, I know that, but when I confronted him before he told me that she means nothing to him, that it was me he wanted. Being insecure in general, I declined once again to have a relationship with him.She lays on the sexual innuendo thick now and he loves every minute of it.I dunno, should I believe him or is he prob deceiving me.They were talking yesterday and when he saw me today he was acting all sad and stuff.I really care about him and this has gone on for 7 years, which seems like a long time for him to just want to get laid by me.I dunno, what do you think?
2007-12-06 02:18:33 · 15 answers · asked by susieboo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
just know that HE hasn't waited 7 years to get laid
2007-12-06 02:21:56 · answer #1 · answered by abc 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
He probably wants something more than just getting, laid, but that doesn't mean he'll be faithful. IMHO, if a man wants something with you, he should act on that, and not wait until he is with you to be faithful. I wouldn't trust a guy that was flirting with someone else a few hours before we got together just because he was single 2 hours before. If he wants to be with you, he should act as if he wanted to be with you, not someone else.
2007-12-06 10:32:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go the respectful route. And I mean SELF RESPECT. If he is intrerested in you even just as "dating" then all others have to be off limits INCLUDING FLIRTING. Flirting is dangerous and leads to cheating (TRUST ME-I'M GUILTY).
Set the ground rules verbally with him if you want the friendship to go any further BUT, you have to possess the backbone that if the ground rules are broken - youre outta there
2007-12-06 12:26:21 · answer #3 · answered by ntl_promo_guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had same experience please stay away.I met a family friends son online years later after hes kicked out of home lived with friends went abroad.That time we were talking became friends fell in love.Slowly it got so bad that i had to actually not want to talk or meet him ever which i neve did thank god since he kept telling everyone i was after him.We only celebrated his bday gave cards to thank for his gifts which i returned.He used to flirt with all my friends online phone.I got to know since they had his number when he finally called me i knew it was him who had called them.His friends met my friends.But he used not call or meet me saying he was sad we never got involved with eachother as i never met or saw him lol good for me i came out of it easy forget this dude hell get involved with u for a lay being a flirt brag about it then move on to flirting female who seems like him they deserve eachother.
2007-12-06 10:53:35 · answer #4 · answered by guygirlmetchat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better than waiting 8 or 10 years!
Seriously, don't wait for him (he's not waiting for U, trust me)! If he wants to get laid, he can. If U think he's waited faithfully for U all these years I have some swamp land in Florida that's for sale ... ;-)
2007-12-06 11:33:21 · answer #5 · answered by Andy K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, sounds like a playa, ugh .. I hate those.
I don't care how old my son is .. if he EVER talks or does any of those lines he better hide from me! lol .. he knows this too .. and he's a gentleman at 18 = )
2007-12-06 13:12:58 · answer #6 · answered by Queenie` 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut. If it feels like he just wants to get laid then you should listen and not risk being hurt, or giving him the satisfaction of using you.
2007-12-06 10:23:56 · answer #7 · answered by alabize 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you care if he is flirting with other girls if you are not in a relationship with him. he is free to flirt with whomever he wants to. you sound very controlling. you want him to want only you and you are only willing to give him what you want him to have. if you want to be with the guy tell him and stop playing games.
2007-12-06 11:13:36 · answer #8 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me any guy that hangs around and soaks up the attention is not worth your time. It is in his nature to need extracurricular attention.
2007-12-06 10:35:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no way dont belive him if u wanna play and just have sex be with him but dont get attached to him. if ur looking for a serious relationship look some place else u'll only get hurt here...
2007-12-06 10:29:17 · answer #10 · answered by Moon.87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋