Has anyone ever used you before....?

Question

Have you been taken advantage of before by someone......?

Answer 1

all the time

Answer 2

Yes
Yes
Life is a series of being used or using; being taken advantage of or taking advantage of. Give and take, take and give.
But there are times when it seems totally one-sided and that you are getting the short end of the stick.
Just hang in there, be the best person you can be regardless of how others treat you and at some point you will reap the benefits of a good soul.

Answer 3

Yes most of my life.
I keep allowing people back into my life, even after they hurt me. I'm a giver and those people are just users and takers. They look for people like me that care for people in general and know that I'll help if I see a need no matter who they are.
As for no matter how many times I faulter or get upset with my situation or get upset with God, He still has His arms open for me to enter back into His warm embrace. So I feel that if God can do that for me, Then people should be willing to help others. How ever I dont believe it's good to get trampled because of caring for people. Usually those people have young children or arent bright enough to know where to go for help. So they keep coming back to me. As they dont want to seek out the answer as it means putting forth efforts.
Recently though I had been helping a man with MS by taking his $$ with him to pay bills and show him how to use the check book or be sure he gets the right amounts back and doesnt lose what he should still have left.
He said for 6 years I was his best-best friend in his entire life. because I would stop what I was doing and help him get up off the floor or go with him to drs or stores and to eat when he needed someone. THAT was UNTIL his brother used me for an escape goat what the brother threw out most of the guy's treasured belongings while he was in recovery. So that the guys wouldnt get extremely angry at the brother . The blame for things being thrown out or taken was placed on me , because for safety and emergency reason I've always had a key to the places the guy lived.
The guy should've known better. As if I really took the things , or was going to steal from him I could've done it long before then. As I could've gone in at any time while he was gone in previous years and slipped out one or 2 things at time without anyone being the wiser for it.
However when the guy decided to stop being my friend instead of just asking me what happened and get to the truth He chose to create his own truth. Now I'll get arrested if I step one foot on the property he lives in, Even if I know someone else there and want to visit those people.
However since i dont have to deal with him. new people have come into my life to help , or to use me for their benefit.
This is the way my life has always gone. I guess I'm just a hopeless sucker for making someone else feel special or know they can get help from me. I sometimes wish I was so willing to step out on that same limb as it eventually breaks , then has to grow back again till the weight is too much and breaks it again.

Answer 4

Yes i have been taken advantage of in relationships...and those one night stands i had weren't my choice, and if asking for that person to be there for me is to much then yes...other than that no.

Answer 5

All the time, but it doesn't stop me.

Helping others is my favorite thing in the world to do.

Answer 6

Yep, unfortunately

Answer 7

I think that we all have at one time or another. It is a lesson that we all have to learn one way or another.

Answer 8

I think we all have, especially if we are in a position of power or authority.

Answer 9

Yes, but rarely anymore. It usually happened in second grade when I was the new girl.

Answer 10

yes