What would you do if you find out that your wife was pregnant, and the father was your brother?

Answer 1

My marriage would be over. Cheating is unacceptable and unforgivable IMHO.

Answer 2

I would be foolish not to feel betrayed - both by my wife and my brother. But I know I would not jump on her with a knife clutched in my hand. Certainly not.

I would sit back and give it a deep thought. She has not only had sex with my brother but has sustained the pregnancy. Surely, she does not have regrets. Probably, that is what I would ask her - Do you regret what you did ?

If she says 'Yes' and sounds honest, then I have two options left for me - abandon her or continue to be with her. There is no question of sin here. I have always believed every woman has a right and freedom to live her own sexual life. The only question would be concering my own preference and I will have to decide whether to keep the marriage.

If she says 'No', meaning that she does not have any regrets about what she has done, then I have only one option left for me - push myself off and set her free. Clearly, something was terribly wrong between the two of us which prompted her to do what she did. And there would be really no point doing a self retrospection. It should be considered too late.

That's how I would take it. There is no such thing as faith or committment in a relationship. The relationship lives as long as there is love in heart and love is volatile; not a constant condition. Understanding that fact, I would consider my wife does not feel love for me any more as she has chosen my brother over me and has no regrets having done so. I should move on without feeling much pain.

Answer 3

If your wife is in love with your brother then set her free.

To get through the hurt find a gym that has a big punching bag and let loose all the frustration on the bag.

When you've come to terms with the situation and feel like you can talk to your bro and wife with out wanting to strangle one of them then go visit them and except that you are better off without a woman that doesn't love you.

If your wife doesn't love your brother send her packing for betraying you. And thank your brother for exposing her true nature.

Of course, this is only based on the info you've given which isn't much in the way of details.

Good Luck to you

You are the leader of your existence.

Answer 4

This is a real tough one. You love your brother and you love your wife. If you want to keep your marriage then perhaps the three of you setting down face to face and talk. I would say first that talking about your brother and your wife not having relations anymore would be first. Then how are you all going to work together for this new life your wife and brother are bringing into the world that you are going to be helping to raise.
A lot of Prayer:)
Bob

Answer 5

Call Jerry Springer

Answer 6

Well first off I would kill my brother....just kidding.
I would probably beat the hell out of my brother, and divorce my wife for cheating on me. The only way I wouldn't divorce someone for that is if sex was forced.

Answer 7

Find out if your wife cheated, or your brother forced onto her. It will be 2 different reactions.

Answer 8

Call Jerry Springer.

Answer 9

If I was the husband and that happen, I would have to flip out on both of them, and go down to the court to start divorce process and find me a place as soon as possible.

Answer 10

If in fact the baby is your brothers then you need to wish them well on their journey together because I would be out.... a baby? that is unforgivable on both parties... you'll never be able to trust them.

Answer 11

Well that wouldnt be right at all. If I was married, we'd be divorced and she'd probably end up as my sister in law. What kind of family would do that crap??? I know it happens but Jesus, Moses, Mary mother of God what is wrong with people???