im scared to hurt anyone
2007-12-06 00:26:34 · 15 answers · asked by amanda m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are scared of hurting yourself-you are scared that you might choose the wrong person and regret it later-because you KNOW that once you end it with one of them that person will have nothing to do with you ever again. You are afraid that if you choose the wrong person, HE will leave you after the other guy is out of the picture, leaving you completely alone! You are selfish, you have never once thought about either of the people-you have a husband. That is the only choice you have. If you divorce, and your "another of 2 years" walks, you know your husband would never take you back. You are going to learn some very hard lessons about love and commitment, and real giving in your very near future. And those lessons are going to hurt-YOU most of all.
Hopefully, you will stop being selfish and start being a person of character at some point........the sorry sap that ends up with you in the end deserves that.
2007-12-06 00:40:57 · answer #1 · answered by Daisy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you have a real problem. As far as I can read into your question, you are an adulteress and you have hurt both already. They just don't know yet. You should have thought about not wanting to hurt people before you started your affair. I would start by seeking some professional counseling either with a counselor or a pastor. God bless.
2007-12-06 08:38:43 · answer #2 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will eventually hurt someone. I believe you should really give your marriage a chance; stop seeing this other man. As long as you are filling up this space in your heart with this mans attention, it will not be open for your husband to complete.
2007-12-06 08:45:24 · answer #3 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your questions is very confusing.
If you have a husband, who is the "other'?
Sounds like you have already hurt someone.
It's time to grow up and stand behind your vows or walk away and allow your husband to find someone who really loves him.
2007-12-06 08:35:03 · answer #4 · answered by TONYA R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been busy and a little foolish so now the time has come to get rid of both of then and start fresh.
2007-12-06 08:30:16 · answer #5 · answered by Bob 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart and hope you made the right choice. You have already hurt everyone.
2007-12-06 08:34:31 · answer #6 · answered by Bill B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you talking about? You're a married woman; so stop acting like a high school cheerleader!
2007-12-06 08:30:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should quit jerking both of them around and grow up. You only get the amount of respect you show.
2007-12-06 08:33:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I can tell you is to follow your heart!
2007-12-06 08:32:57 · answer #9 · answered by tasha82281@verizon.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been screwing around on your husband for 2 years and your worried about hurting someone? Duh what the heck did you think would happen?
2007-12-06 08:50:37 · answer #10 · answered by Nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋