Would you marry the same person if you had to do it again?.
2007-12-06 00:16:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I Never would have believed anyone if they had told me that after 30 years of marriage, I would still be anxious to get home to her at the end of the day.
After a few rough early years, my wife has become my reason for being. She is my best friend, my lover and my soul mate. Now, the children have gone on to their own lives and once again its just we two.
We cherish the remaining years for we have learned how fast they pass.
Do it all over again? Oh, I only wish it were possible.
2007-12-06 02:21:39 · answer #1 · answered by we_are_legion99 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been with my husband for 33 (not married all that time though) and I would definitely marry him again. We'd both dated around a LOT before we met and got serious. I know I wouldn't have been as happy or as free spirited with any of the others I dated. I don't think my husband would trade me either because we both wish we had gotten married a few years sooner than we did.
I do believe, however, that you can find more than one soul mate in life, if the timing is right when you meet.
2007-12-06 08:55:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I got married in 1990. I got divorced in 2007. We didnot divorce for lack of love. It was for financial purposes. We still live together. As far as we are concerned, we are still married to each other. There are times when I would answer, "Hell NO!" There are other times I would say, "Don't ya just know it!" We have had our fights but we still love each other. We have a safety valve that we use and it works. We have grown in our love, and we work at staying together. It's not an easy thing to do sometimes. Anything worth having, requires hard work. Marriage is a roller coaster ride. I have left a couple of times, but came right back after I cooled off. Then I weighed the situation and realized that my love for her was much more powerful than my anger. Would I marry her again? You're darn tootin I would without any regrates!
2007-12-06 10:26:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Married 11 years, YES I would marry the same person, but I would do some things differently.....mostly in the earlier years of our marriage....I am more mature now, but then, that's all part of life anyway. No regrets!
2007-12-06 12:12:50 · answer #4 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
here's an odd twist, i was married for 7 years to the wrong one, i went back to my hs/college sweetheart after calling the relationship off almost 10 years ago... so, what i have to say is if i could do it over again, i would have put my youthful fears behind me and married then... it would have saved me much misery while i was partying and sole searching with the wrong people while mr. right was there all along.
2007-12-06 11:23:10 · answer #5 · answered by sherman supporter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you asked me that after 3 years, the answer would have been No. But after 10 yrs, I know better than to think there's better out there. Please dont get me wrong - I am happily married and would advise anyone experiencing any kind of abuse to leave their spouse because there definitely is better in that case.
2007-12-06 08:46:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
after 30+years of marriage-why start again-for the most part despite the few problems along the way-i will definitely would
2007-12-06 08:27:06 · answer #7 · answered by nj2pa2nc 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tough question, but the only reason I would marry him again is without him or me, we wouldn't have produced our beautiful children.
2007-12-06 08:33:21 · answer #8 · answered by Ladyhawke 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would, but not as young as I did. I would explore the world more first before settling down.
2007-12-06 08:35:04 · answer #9 · answered by ngood10720 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ME AND MY WIFE HAS BEEN MARRIED FOR 23 YEARS I WOULD MARRY HER AGAIN SHE HAS BEEN VERY GOOD TO ME.
2007-12-06 08:25:26 · answer #10 · answered by RATZ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋