bestfriend?

Question

is my bestfriend a good bestfriend because sometimes she's an amazing person like we laugh and have a lot of fun but then sometimes she's so mean she's really rude and stuff

she's always telling me your crush doesnt like u and he never will when her crush doesnt even say 1 WORD to her


also she acts like she's better than me and when she says shes gonna do something and i say that i am too she gets all jealous when i was planning to do that[something] before her

also she thinks she's funny and calls be a B****

SO IS SHE A GOOD BFF?????? OR WHY DOES SHE ACT LIKE THAT???????

Answer 1

There are FRIENDS and there are ACQUAINTANCES... even within family groups.
Acquaintances only call you when they want something... bring a present to a birthday party, or come when they call. These people are "users" at best. They typically don't care about you or anything going on in your life. You always wonder where you stand with these people until you put 2 + 2 together.
Friends are different. They are there for you, usually share common interests, offer a shoulder to cry on, cheer you on, and want the best for you.
At some point, you need to evaluate each relationship and ask, "What does this person bring to the table?" Is this person a mooch? A user? A manipulator? A drama-queen? A time-waster? Or is this person your cheering section? Provide insight? Make you laugh?
As you go down the list of traits and how each thing makes you feel, you will know who you should be spending more time with.

That certainly does NOT sound like a friend... more like some twit with the "queen bee syndrome"... go find better friends.

Answer 2

NOPE! Definitely not a best friend if you ask me. You can find supposed friends all the time, but to find a true best friend to stick by you through thick and thin, and to even make you a better person is rare. Sounds like she is more worried about herself, and a true friend is there for there friend and does not try to put them down or make them feel less than themselves! If was me I would rather have NO friend at all then a friend like her. I can understand how you get along at times and you like each other (and I mean only as friends), but if you want a true best friend, you need to find someone that is there for you through thick and thin and definitely does not put you down or make you feel bad, which I think she does to you, otherwise why would you be asking? I think you know deep down she is not a true friend but you like her and probably don't want to just stop being her friend but if these things persist, believe me you are WAYYYYYYYYY better off, and there will always be a day where you come across someone who is definitely best friend material.

Answer 3

No she isn't a trustworthy best friend if she puts you down and makes you feel bad. Sounds like she wants to control you and the things you do and pass judgement on your friends and yes she could be jealous of you. I hope you have more than her for a friend. Spread yourself around. Don't be totally in her company as she doesn't have your best interests at heart. You know she could have low self esteem and envy you??? Ease up with her and have a few other friends.

Answer 4

Well i think that this girl mite just be a friend. But also best friends go through fights thats wat makes ur relationship stronger. If shes putting you down or making u look bad maybe you should take a little break from her or tell her shes hurtting ur feelings. The fact that she calls u a b**** is NOT cool at all even ur aquentences shouldnt do that. She mite be goin through some hard times rite now or maybe she just wants to controll u. If thats the case shes not a friend.

Answer 5

She gets jealous sometimes. Its fine! I have 2 bff who are the same with me but the thing about it is they hate each other so I hang with them on diff times. I forgot Im not friends with one of them bcuz she got so jealous that I created a bond with her mother & we got into a big fight so after that I just never became the same type of friends with her anymore.

Answer 6

MISERY LOVES COMPANY. Obviously, your friend is sooo unhappy in HER life, she wants to pick on you, to make herself feel better. My friend acts this way, when she is having trouble in her marriage, and I take a step back, and ask her, whats going on at home, u know? When a friend who can be sooo great at times, has these spats, its ussually cause they are so unhappy in their own life. And it has nothing to do with you... She is so depresed and negative with her life. She is just trying to rub it off on u and take it out on you... Just stear clear when she is acting that way if you want to continue the friendship. Or, just let it go through one ear, and out the other.... ITs up to you, but eventually, you will get sick of it... TRy to look for another group to hang out with... see where your life takes you. You are what you eat, and you are who you hang out with. Her attitude will rub off on you, eventaully. Good luck!

Answer 7

I smell a jealous hater!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That is not what a bestfriend is supposed to be like. She is supposed to be there for you no matter what. Drop her like she has something soap and water can't wash off!!!!

Answer 8

She doesn't seem to be a best friend...

Answer 9

oneday she will know all this and u r the best.