my best friend?

Question

well i have a best friend well a so called best friend i love her heaps and all but she acts like she doesnt like me and just stays away from me she wont open up to me i dont even know why we hang around with each other its so awkawrd i try to get to know her better give her space and everything but she just shuts down on me i want to know how i can get her to open up to me and admire me just as i admire her

Answer 1

That is not a friend. She doesn't want to be associated with you. Move on. Find some more mature and likeable people to hang around with.

There are FRIENDS and there are ACQUAINTANCES... even within family groups.
Acquaintances only call you when they want something... bring a present to a birthday party, or come when they call. These people are "users" at best. They typically don't care about you or anything going on in your life. You always wonder where you stand with these people until you put 2 + 2 together.
Friends are different. They are there for you, usually share common interests, offer a shoulder to cry on, cheer you on, and want the best for you.
At some point, you need to evaluate each relationship and ask, "What does this person bring to the table?" Is this person a mooch? A user? A manipulator? A drama-queen? A time-waster? Or is this person your cheering section? Provide insight? Make you laugh?
As you go down the list of traits and how each thing makes you feel, you will know who you should be spending more time with.

Answer 2

Sounds like she doesnt feel the same, i would seek a new friend...