my friend mike is a preacher's kid. he's almost 21. he was on main street and lit up a cigarette. when he got home his parents said 3 of our members called and said they saw you w/ a cigarette. then they chewed his a$s. he said he's an adult and what he does is none of their business. I don't agree w/ smoking, but I do agree w/ it not being their business. another time he went to class (college) in pajama bottoms. lots of students do that. his parents got called and said we saw mike at the college wearing pajamas! what is wrong w/ that boy blah blah blah. also, he was downtown again and holding his girlfriend's hand. he kissed her on the lips. guess what happened? yup! phone calls and all that. (his parents didn't care). he gets pretty pissed off, and I would to. He flat told his parents that it's no one's business, and that if the church members say something to him, he'll say it's no one's business but my own. watcha think?
2007-12-05 17:12:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like your friend has a problem with busy-body tattle-tale churchies with nothing better to do.
Yes, he will have to get used to calling these idiots down on their nosiness and gossip. His dad needs to make a few pulpit statements about gossip as well.
It also sounds like he needs to transfer to a college in another town so he can have a normal life.
2007-12-05 18:03:06 · answer #1 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like kindergarten. Mike needs to move out.
2007-12-06 01:21:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that his dad should tell the members that his son is his son. And that they should leave the lecturing to them and that it would be best that he gets caught on his own.
2007-12-06 01:22:34 · answer #3 · answered by married & still inlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he's 21 he'd better use it and say hey I'm over 21.
2007-12-06 01:19:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋