2007-12-05 17:10:38 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Myself.. I'm married to someone that I will love until the end no matter what I just hope she feels the same....
There are no iron clad garuntees in life..but there are those things we choose to make work.
2007-12-06 15:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by Old Wise One 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the purpose of marriage is different for different people and has meaning to each individual. I'm just saddened that so many people see it as just a scrap of paper.
For me, marriage is creating a life with someone who shares similar goals and values. It's a place where I feel safe and loved, a place to belong. My marriage gives me purpose and gives me a nurturing environment to raise my children. I hope to grow old with my spouse.
No matter what? No, there are some things that would cause me to end the marriage, but the list is short.
2007-12-06 12:28:57 · answer #2 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah something like that. Also to know that he only wanted to be with you or he would not have signed papers to be with you for ever other wise. But you can also grow old with someone that you know will love you till the end even if you are not married. I think some people see a marriage as a way of saying they own that person.
2007-12-06 01:15:03 · answer #3 · answered by Christine 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No
That's not only the purpose of marriage It is Miltie purpose In which both gender met together and make a relation as they work together and help on all the aspects and make the Family To complete the Human Character like mother , Father .
2007-12-06 03:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by Zuhair Mehdi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you believe in a "hes the only" one thing thing.
I've been married 25 years. I can only tell you that raising kids, being unemployed and having a house almost foreclose on you will test the bonds of marriage.
We still love each other to the end, and I will grow old with him. But you have to be willing to take the risks also because you never know what will happen.
HIs and my parents were married 30 and 26 yrs before become widows and widowers.
but there's alot of crap you have to take in all that time.
2007-12-06 01:16:43 · answer #5 · answered by Cactus-Flower 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
A marriage is a supposed to be a sign of true commitment between two people. this commitment is taken very lightly these days as people rush into it before they get to know each other or they marry for the wrong reasons like how the other person looks, money or social status. these things can all be taken away. true marriage you should stay together for ever but if you married for the wrong reasons you shouldn't have married at all
2007-12-06 01:23:25 · answer #6 · answered by monkey clown 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
the end don't necessarily mean old age.....
marriage is when one fines another that fulfill his/her heart to the point where looking farther is not needed.
before this person is found, the other people we meet just cause a dim light in our souls, but when the right ones are untied, the soul is brighten with that light of love. this is just the ground work of togetherness. now them two must work to become one, when this happens, in most cases they do indeed grow old together. now that's a marriage.........
marriage is like anything else.......what is gotten out of it will depend on what was put into it.
you may have heard it said.......marriage is 50/50.
......it's NOT.......it's 100/100.......
i could write a book on marriage, but i believe you get the message..........
May Your Life Be Blessed Always
2007-12-06 01:50:47 · answer #7 · answered by LITTLE_JOHN 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Marriage as a purpose for something....that implies that marriage is a means to an end, and for most marriage is and end in and of itself. Know what I mean? You get married not for a purpose, but because you desire to be married. Then again I'm not married, so what do I know? Furthermore, I don't know that I believe in marriage much anymore.
2007-12-06 01:25:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
The is the hopeful purpose of marriage: What I plan to do. Of course, the term love is relative. If you want yourself to "love" them continually, you will. Concentrate on the good things about them. Remind yourself why you chose them. I really don't understand the question, so I'm sort of shooting in the dark, but hope that helped.
2007-12-06 01:14:34 · answer #9 · answered by Bartthollemew 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I feel like marraige is more than just growing old with someone. To me marriage is about becoming one with someone, when the hearts meld, when 2 become one, sharing a life together, raising children, enoying each other, and love. But if it goes down the tube you have to know when to let it go.
2007-12-06 02:18:12 · answer #10 · answered by rashida_16 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋