he was divorced when i met him.i was concerned for him which converted to love from my side.now he is married.i feel like connecting with him.mad about seeing him.what do i do?
2007-12-05 16:38:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What happens if your husband logs onto your YA account and reads this. Not that you don't deserve whatever you get. Lighten up and back away from the big cheat waiting to happen.
2007-12-05 16:44:38 · answer #1 · answered by mark 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I suggest not to play with 'fire'. Sooner or later, this feeling of yours will create family havoc for yourself and the friend family as well should you intend to connect with him. If you still love your husband, then you must not even think about having 'affairs' with his friend.. People is always such ie do not cherish what they have till damage is done!!! End of the day, potentially you could lose your husband and the friend too and you may end up with nothing.. Although pasture on the other side is always greener, do not cross the line for your case... Trust me, history always repeat itself and there are so many real life cases that had happened like your situation..
2007-12-06 00:48:43 · answer #2 · answered by GaryT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't mean to put the guilt trip on you but, you are married. You have promised to be faithful and true to the man you married. If you intend on pursuing any kind of contact with this "friend" it would be the right thing to do to let your husband know of your feelings. You are jeopardising your marriage by being unfaithful with your emotions, and/ or physical conduct (if any). I suggest you re-valuate what you want in your life and priorities.
2007-12-06 00:49:38 · answer #3 · answered by lukewarm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a rest and don't be a selfish pig. Do nothing. Converted to love? How about converted to being a cheat?
2007-12-06 00:43:30 · answer #4 · answered by clarabelle 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes in life we must deny ourselves the things we really want. Pursuing your obsession can only result in hurting others. Are your desires more important than the pain you will inflict? Let him go.
2007-12-06 00:43:49 · answer #5 · answered by tahunajcw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u married silly u should talk to ur husband about how u feel..... be honest with him he may be hurt but alk about how u feel and he feels and find out to make the marraige work good luck
2007-12-06 00:44:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So are you not married anymore???? If you are, why would this guy be interested in you, since you would be unfaithful to your husband?????This makes no sense at all.
2007-12-06 00:43:13 · answer #7 · answered by sandy t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it alone girl.. he is married and you are married be satisfied with what you have ,, it is not right to fantisize over another man especially your husbands close friend,
that is all it is ,, leave it alone mj
2007-12-06 00:44:10 · answer #8 · answered by mjbrightergem33 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for crying out loud...your MARRIED how about you stay faithful and stop thinking about another man...... your poor husband...if only he knew!
2007-12-06 00:46:05 · answer #9 · answered by littlemisssaigon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fight it. You don't want to be found cheating on our husband!=)
2007-12-06 00:43:29 · answer #10 · answered by Midnight Iris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋