I'm afraid I'm pregnant but I just don't know...?

Question

So i hooked up with this guy on November 2nd..we DID use a condom but that doesnt mean anything cuz i read somewhere they dont always work. I had my period on November 12th so I figured i was fine. Lately tho ive been feeling weird..nausea, cramps, frequent urination, sore breasts, exhaustion... I took a HPT today and it came up negative. I was also with a diff guy on Nov 20. My period isnt due for this month until next week. But i read u can sometimes get ur pd and still be preg..Im going to take another test next week but I pretty much just wanna know...could I be pregnant???? And if im not, why am i feeling this way?? ive been getting random cravings that can go from cravings to makin me wanna puke and just random spells of nausea and running to the br thinkin im gonna puke. Also if i am preg, and i used a condom with both guys, which is more likely the dad???

Answer 1

Oh my God, what a jam you are in. I feel for you and I know you must be a nervous wreck. Your symptoms sound pretty much like early pregnancy symptoms but it could just be your mind playing tricks on you. Just the thought that you might be pregnant could be actually causing physical symptoms or you might really be pregnant. As far as who the father is will probably take a DNA test later if in fact you are pregnant. Wait another week and take another test is my advice.

Answer 2

a lot of the symptoms could be brought on by your nervousness. i was recently worried about the same thing, and the more i read about the early signs of pregnancy (nausea, sore breasts, sensitive to smells, etc.) the more i thought i had them. (it turned out i wasn't.)

first, make sure the next test you use is the kind that detects pregnancy as early as possible. (it should say 20mlc, or some such. the higher the number, the less accurate it will be early on, so get the lowest number possible.) also, no test will be able to detect pregnancy before a week or two after the sexual intercourse. if (and it's very unlikely) you are pregnant, the second is more likely to be the father.

but you probably aren't pregnant. you aren't even late yet. i'd take another test in a week if you haven't started, and in the meantime, stop stressing about it. contact your local planned parenthood for more info and options.

Answer 3

If you have had your period already from the first guy, you most likely are not pregnant from him.

It is true that the condom does not always work to prevent pregnancy or the spread of STD's. You need to go have yourself checked by a physician. I suggest this as you have had sex with 2 different guys in under a month, which is extremely high-risk behavior, EVEN IF you are using a condom.

You may be pregnant from the second guy, only time will tell. You shouldn't be feeling all those symptoms yet, you normally don't start feeling them until the following month.

If you are not pregnant you need to be checked for PID, etopic pregnancy (this is the one you may still bleed with, and it has to be terminated if you are as it is life threating), and cysts in your uterus and on your overies...

I hope you find this helpful. I guess my advice is go talk to your doctor. Be open and honest with your physician, as this is the only way they will have all the facts to know what may be wrong with you.

Answer 4

There is a really good chance you are. You had sex at the right time. When I first thought there was a possibility of me being pregnant I had a really sore back and really sore boobs. I did not get super hungry or tired until about 6 weeks. The only question I have is why did you have unprotected sex while you were ovulating if now you are worried about being pregnant? You have to know that unprotected sex leads to pregnancy, so you really should not be worried just accept the fact that you had sex at your most fertile time of the month.

Answer 5

Well, yes you can be pregnant. It could be either one of them if you used a condom for both of the guys. I would relax and take another test or go to the doctor and see if you are pregnant. They can sometimes tell how long you have infact been pregnant for. So that would help in knowing which guy. You would need to check both the guys probably as well.

Answer 6

if you are experiencing these symptoms you definatley might be pregnant. i just had my first child 5 months ago. i wasnt expecting it neither. but i never had any of those symtoms that some women do. but every women is differnt. you should consult to a doctor and have him/her examin you right away. thats the best way to go. let them know how you are feeling.
yes it is true that you can have your period when you are pregnant but it is usualy spotting that occurs. which is what i had. that best time to take a HPT is in the moring because that is when all your hormones are best.

Answer 7

Yes you could be pregnant but the guy on the 20th would be the daddy not the first. You had your period on the 12 after the first guy.

Get a STD check too.

Answer 8

From what you are saying it is possible that you are pregnant. since you slept with both guys so close together it is possible for either of them to be the father. You should take another test and go to the doctor just to make sure.

Answer 9

Some women have symptoms of false pregnancy. Don't get all worked up yet. relax or it will come later because of nerves.
The dad part you are going to have to have them tested for a positive result. don't play a guessing game. They have every right to know also.

Best of Luck

Answer 10

I would either wait like a couple weeks after your period or go to a planned parenthood and take another test first response is good.