was cheating on his girlfriend, would you tell her? why/whynot?
2007-12-05 15:58:53 · 31 answers · asked by Dylangirl 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
no way
maybe just i advise my brother
2007-12-05 21:13:58 · answer #1 · answered by Guevara 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She needs to know, for sure... And I don't think that it's none of your business, b/c if you're a caring human being, that kind of knowledge will eat at you like mad. But I also don't know that you should out and out tell her, necessarily. I agree with what BlueEyes said, that you should strategically help her to discover it on her own... That way she can avoid the greater heartache she'd have if she were to find out even farther down the road, and you can sleep peacefully. Good luck!
[Edit:] After thinking about it further, I do think you need to talk to your brother about it. Let him know that you know about the cheating, & that his gf deserves to be treated better... So if he doesn't tell her, you'll do it yourself. I think.
Ahhh, I don't know! That's a hard situation to be in; I definitely don't envy you. : /
2007-12-06 00:36:08 · answer #2 · answered by Cycloppety-Clops 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd be very angry at my brother and I would strongly suggest that he be a man and tell his girlfriend that he is cheating. If he wouldn't tell her then I would and I'd tell him that I was going to. The reason I would is because if he wants to behave like a single man then he should be a single man and let his girlfriend find someone who wants a monogamous relationship.
2007-12-06 00:12:18 · answer #3 · answered by sydney77 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
forget my brother i would even tell my friend's girlfriend that he is cheating on her. their r too many women in this world , ie. 6 girls for 1 guy. so a guy has more job to do than the women. but the girls just dont understand that , they want one guy for themselves.
if that happens then what r the rest of the women to do-- become lesbians.
women r so thick headed that they dont understand this.
2007-12-06 10:41:32 · answer #4 · answered by cooool dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way. I'd be telling half the town. my brothers never been loyal to one girlfriend. he's a man about town if you know what I mean. He probably has a medical chart at the clinic a mile long.
2007-12-06 00:03:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I was friends with her, then yes, I'd tell her, because I would want to know if someone was cheating on me. But, if I hardly knew her, then I would stay out of it.~~
2007-12-06 00:04:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't have a brother, but if i did i would smack him for treating his girl friend like that, but i wouldn't tell the girlfriend unless he continued his behaviour after the little talk, because i would consider it an issue he needs to take care of himself.
2007-12-06 00:09:19 · answer #7 · answered by ilona c 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go out of my way to tell her but if she asked me flat out I wouldn't lie.
I wouldn't want to betray my brother, but as a human being she deserves an honest answer to a direct question.
2007-12-06 00:04:36 · answer #8 · answered by becka212 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you good friends w/her? If not or your not friends at all then I wouldn't get into his business..I never really get involved with any of my two brothers life just like I don't like it when they get involved in mine.
2007-12-06 00:06:42 · answer #9 · answered by ☼love♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it would cause your brother to dislike you for telling his girlfriend. So, I would leave it as that.
2007-12-06 00:06:10 · answer #10 · answered by Jeremy W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't snitch on your brother, you can talk to him if it really bothers you but i think you want some of what hes got, an that would make you A PUNK
2007-12-06 00:07:01 · answer #11 · answered by als been a dad 3 times 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋