Come home & massage her shoulders without announcing or asking. Massage can lead to stimulation & other wholesome activities. if that doesnt work, ask her why she doesnt want sex. She could be ill or it could easily be fixed, she just needs to know it is affecting you & she might not be aware its a problem.
2007-12-05 15:30:56
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answered by Anonymous
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I have gotten to the same point. I have a very selfish man. If I wanted sex with a bunny I would have married a rabbit. Seriously, really really look at how you make love. Is there patterns. Do you do the same exact thing everytime you have sex. It can get so boring sometimes that I actually yawn. My husband knows this and tries sometimes and then just gets back into the same ole routine. Are you making it worthwhile for her , Are you giving her foreplay ( not just touching breast and v-j area) . Do you get her excited?
2007-12-05 16:14:19
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answered by Bilinda G 6
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I think society places too much emphasis on fidelity in marriage and your question is a case in point. I would reckon that every marriage suffers with this issue at some point.... obviously sometimes it works itself out and other times someone walks out.
Really, a bit of mutual exploration is the way forward. Find out what your partner wants from the marriage and if it isn't a bit of slap and tickle on a regular basis, perhaps she will be more forgiving if you get your jollies off around the corner... talk it through if it really bothers you.
You never know ~ she might just be waiting for you to invite someone special around... or waiting for you to jump into that lycra batman outfit I saw you in last week at the ...... oh that's right... top secret. shhhh.
2007-12-05 16:31:01
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answered by Icy Gazpacho 6
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Raising a woman's sex drive is really hard, trust me. I suggest you find a way to lower yours or you might just have to go searching in places where you shouldnt be.
2007-12-05 16:36:07
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answered by Anonymous
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Well, do really nice things for her. I have a high sex drive and my boyfriend has a sex drive is umm.. no comment. I try and mention it sometimes and try and relax and masturbate when he does not want to do anything or say anything even related to sex.
2007-12-05 16:31:04
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answered by Caitlin 6
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kiss her while she is writing on the table or watching tv.. or talk to her about it. be more romantic and surprising on her or ask her what she wants (some woman get excited on surprise not a gift but a little kisses on her back neck or touch or squeezing on her thigh or arms or butt or fondling her boobs lol) give her a sneaky fondling in supermarket..make it sure no one see it.. lol
I understand the feeling being neglected with spouse.
2007-12-05 15:50:41
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answered by o_o 4
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buy one of those board games from a sex shop and play it with her it will be fun for her and maybe get her in the mood
2007-12-05 15:30:38
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answered by Star L 5
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to get her interested, spice things up a little bit. surprise her with something sensual or romantic. take things out of the routine and maybe she will open up to you sexually
2007-12-05 15:30:26
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answered by ʜeʟʟӧ_ᴅөll 4
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If you want to raise hers, she should start taking estrogen pills, if you want to lower yours, I'd suggest castration. (Kidding on the castration bit!)
2007-12-05 15:28:00
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answered by Anonymous
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you know.............. tumae ka....................
2007-12-05 15:28:44
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answered by jonel p 1
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