In a loveless marriage. Not much money, husband doesn't work & he is always going out w/ his friends or to poker & I almost never get out of the house I am always home w/ the kids & I have no friends around here they all live at least 3 hours away. My only social life really is on the phone or on the net & I only get to see my friends a few times a year.
2007-12-05 15:16:34 · 26 answers · asked by Death Girl Am 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Do what other married women do, get some side action.
2007-12-05 15:19:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
WoW! Sucks to be you eh? :) But seriously.....The only person that is going to give you a better life, the one that you want...is yourself.....trust me, from experience...don't stay in a loveless marriage just for the kids sake.....
It has always made sense to me....two parents together and miserable - is much much worse than two parents - apart - but happier than a fly in a pile of sh*t.....
Good luck hon....sounds like you need all the gumption you can get :)
2007-12-05 15:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by L ♥ L ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that sounds pretty depressing. Am probably not a whole lot of help but I will say I hope things take a turn for the better. Life is krazy.
2007-12-05 16:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by Krazy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot depends on your husband. He need to revamp his life, kick the bad habit, get a job, work toward some sort of goal. He is visionless. He need to wake up to reality & see the devastation of the future to him & his family if he continue this path.
2007-12-05 15:26:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's goo d you have friends. was he like that when u married him.
my neice is in a marriage like this, i cant say its loveless, cause she's doing all she can, but her man is abusive. the only thing he can do is go back to Christ & pick up where he left off. he was trusted him, but not enuf to go on to church or say anythiing about it & she wont go at all. so it's just an endless cycle.
i would advise you to go to the Lord & get his advise on it. or maybe you got it on Answers & should listen. it may be good advise who ever it is.
2007-12-05 15:59:26 · answer #5 · answered by AnnaMaria 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
count your blessings
you have roof over your head, food on your table, beautiful kids, family. access to the net, phone to speak with friends
work on your marriage, be positive & energetic, find something to do
dedicate some time to prayer, meditation, helping others..
good luck & God bless
you are never alone, God is always with you♥
2007-12-05 15:21:13 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like I said before, put the kids in the car and tell Mr Wonderful you are goint o the store and get out. Pack some stuff while he is out..........
2007-12-05 15:21:07 · answer #7 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I had the same life as you, only my husband was also on heroin, abusive, and cheated on me. I kicked him out and got a better life. You can, too.
2007-12-05 15:25:08 · answer #8 · answered by Маsha_Resurrected 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, think about it this way, there are worse situations than yours. at least you have your kids. some people don't have anyone, a place to live, food to eat. it definitely could be worse.
2007-12-05 15:21:12 · answer #9 · answered by andmic510 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your husband!! You need to!! It would probaly help!! Try to get together with your friends more often, let them now how you are feeling. I hope this helps! ><
2007-12-05 15:19:54 · answer #10 · answered by Wondering 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋