my boyfriend wants to have SEX but im only 19 what should i do
2007-12-05 13:34:24 · 17 answers · asked by katelane s 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Don't have sex. If you don't want to do it, do not feel pressured to do it. If your boyfriend really cares about you, he will respect that and wait until you are ready.
2007-12-05 13:55:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 4⤋
You are the one that will decide when you have sex. Never let anyone tell you what to do with your body. If it is your age you are worried about you are an adult and old enough to have sex if you want to. If you are saving yourself for marriage you just need to tell him that. Make sure that you are protected from pregnancy and stds before you have sex with anyone. He should respect the decisions you make for yourself and let it go if you are not ready.
2007-12-05 16:12:21 · answer #2 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a Catholic, i replaced into continually taught, intercourse in the previous MARRIAGE = undesirable! and that i never understood. i think it somewhat is in user-friendly terms a strict faith element. yet i will stay with this on my own words, when you consider which you're might think of you're specific which you would be marrying somebody, yet there is truly hundreds of opportunities to issues that could take place. you in basic terms never understand.. So i think of the ingredient they're attempting to get in the process is that your distinctive function is efficacious and as quickly as you're tied at the same time constantly, you do not likely 'lose' the distinctive function, yet you 2 variety of.. supply it to eachother if it somewhat is sensible. in case you somewhat love her nonetheless, understand her needs! :)
2016-10-02 06:54:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt do anything u dont want o do just becuase he wants to if u dont want to have sex he should respect that decison and not force u into anything im 18 and my boyfriend is 21 and weve been dating for 2 years and we are still virgins
2007-12-05 16:04:55 · answer #4 · answered by Bookybell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its your choice. I don't see why ur saying only 19, the average person has lost their virginity by your age. No age issue here.
2007-12-05 14:22:29 · answer #5 · answered by Dylan 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
dont get pressured in 2 it.if u do it wont b an enjoyable experience.u'll no in urself when the times right 4 u.n if he doesnt understand then he's not worth doing it with in 1st place
2007-12-05 13:57:13 · answer #6 · answered by lisa w 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
don't let him pressure you
but at least your old enough to make your own decisions...
cause you can deal with the reality of being pregnant becuse you are not sixteen or shiit
2007-12-07 08:46:17 · answer #7 · answered by beecckkyyy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only do what you want to. If you don't feel ready then tell him and if he loves you then he'll understand if not he's not worth it.
2007-12-05 23:14:37 · answer #8 · answered by knight32 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not ready, then don't do it. If you're having any doubts now about it then you'll be feeling 100times worse after. It's much better to have your boyfriend leave you because you're not ready, than to sleep with him and have him leave you because that's all he wanted =]
Suit yourself, it's your body and no one elses.
2007-12-05 14:12:58 · answer #9 · answered by ★☆✿❀ 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
If you don't want to have sex with him, then tell him. If he cares about you he'll respect that. Simple!
2007-12-05 13:57:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋