does anyone know who to pick
guys or girls?
2007-12-05 13:32:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
im a 14 year old girl.
2007-12-05 13:35:33 · update #1
These people are immature who answered. We don't decide who you fall in love with, you do.
2007-12-05 13:35:29 · answer #1 · answered by ○•Picasso•○ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you can choose, and you need to choose, then your life will be a lot less pain-filled if you, as a girl, choose guys. You may always like girls, and want to be with them, so it is important for you to explore your sexuality as much as you can while you are still young enough, before people start expecting you to "settle down". Find out how both are. Discover which is best for you, if you need to make a choice. Then STICK to your choice and don't constantly wonder what if.
2007-12-05 23:21:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the bi individual and what they feel comfy being with intimately at that current time, enjoying "the best of both worlds".
We all juggle around a LOT of people dynamics when we are attracted to someone that all come together to build that attraction. Bi people are no exception--and likely deal with double the people dynamics of consideration when facing attraction to someone.
You're 14 and doubts are assurred you can effectively deal with such dynamics at this stage of life. However, no harm in sexual experimentation (as long as you play it safe and smart); doing so doesn't make you gay or bi.
And by time your emotional maturity peaks, you'll clearly understand whether you're straight, lesbian or bisexual.
Have fun along the journey.
2007-12-05 21:36:14 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'll tell you what to pick... PICK up a book and read about something that will add some value to your life. Pick up a broom and help your family keep the house clean. Pick up a pen and write a story. Better yet, PICK another stage in your life to be worried about PICKing sexes. Treat everyone as a friend, and don't have SEX with anyone, at least until you've PICKed up a Diploma.
2007-12-05 21:42:34 · answer #4 · answered by HotDockett 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The term of what bisexual is the preference of both sides. I'm sorry, there would be no choice. If you PICK that means you are not bisexual but instead heterosexual.
2007-12-05 21:36:27 · answer #5 · answered by ret80soft 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It really depends, which one do you honestly perfer? Which one turns you on? Which one do you want to spend the rest of your life with? if you have already met the love of your life who is also bisexual go for them. Also, I honestly would reccomend going for the one that is your oppostie sex, just because I honestly think you will have a lot of hardships and a lot of problems with have the same sex marriage, just because how ignorant people are of people's sexuality. Anyway, its your choice, but this is just my two cents.
2007-12-05 21:35:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
why chose just one? Being Bi just means your open to all forms of sex. And in reality, sex is just an animal act and we humans are just at the top of the animal food chain.
So enjoy what ever your appetite is craving atm.
PS Don't confuse Love and Sex. They should never be used in the same breath.
2007-12-05 21:36:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pick based on the things you like about their personality, the way they make you feel, and yes how they look. You don't have to pick based on if they are male or female..just pick the person..that is right for you.
2007-12-05 21:36:01 · answer #8 · answered by LadyBanshee 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it depends on your preferance but if you decide to be both then your just confused. You dont know if you like the features of a man or the features of a woman more.
2007-12-05 21:35:28 · answer #9 · answered by brittany_shay_143 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
pick guys. theyre hotter.i hav a lot of bi friends but i cant figure out how even guys can be attracted 2 girls. most girls piss me off
2007-12-05 21:35:59 · answer #10 · answered by guns'n'roses 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋