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You know, "kissing under the mistletoe"?

I like it! Who else does?!

2007-12-05 13:01:29 · 18 answers · asked by Dr. G™ 3 in Society & Culture Holidays Christmas

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The Mistletoe Magic :
From the earliest times mistletoe has been one of the most magical, mysterious, and sacred plants of European folklore. It was considered to bestow life and fertility; a protection against poison; and an aphrodisiac. The mistletoe of the sacred oak was especially sacred to the ancient Celtic Druids. On the sixth night of the moon white-robed Druid priests would cut the oak mistletoe with a golden sickle. Two white bulls would be sacrificed amid prayers that the recipients of the mistletoe would prosper. Later, the ritual of cutting the mistletoe from the oak came to symbolize the emasculation of the old King by his successor. Mistletoe was long regarded as both a sexual symbol and the "soul" of the oak. It was gathered at both mid-summer and winter solstices, and the custom of using mistletoe to decorate houses at Christmas is a survival of the Druid and other pre-Christian traditions. The Greeks also thought that it had mystical powers and down through the centuries it became associated with many folklore customs. In the Middle Ages and later, branches of mistletoe were hung from ceilings to ward off evil spirits. In Europe they were placed over house and stable doors to prevent the entrance of witches. It was also believed that the oak mistletoe could extinguish fire. This was associated with an earlier belief that the mistletoe itself could come to the tree during a flash of lightning. The traditions which began with the European mistletoe were transferred to the similar American plant with the process of immigration and settlement.


Kissing under the mistletoe :
Kissing under the mistletoe is first found associated with the Greek festival of Saturnalia and later with primitive marriage rites. They probably originated from two beliefs. One belief was that it has power to bestow fertility. It was also believed that the dung from which the mistletoe would also possess "life-giving" power. In Scandinavia, mistletoe was considered a plant of peace, under which enemies could declare a truce or warring spouses kiss and make-up. Later, the eighteenth-century English credited with a certain magical appeal called a kissing ball. At Christmas time a young lady standing under a ball of mistletoe, brightly trimmed with evergreens, ribbons, and ornaments, cannot refuse to be kissed. Such a kiss could mean deep romance or lasting friendship and goodwill. If the girl remained unkissed, she cannot expect not to marry the following year. In some parts of England the Christmas mistletoe is burned on the twelfth night lest all the boys and girls who have kissed under it never marry. Whether we believe it or not, it always makes for fun and frolic at Christmas celebrations. Even if the pagan significance has been long forgotten, the custom of exchanging a kiss under the mistletoe can still be found in many European countries as well as in Canada. Thus if a couple in love exchanges a kiss under the mistletoe, it is interpreted as a promise to marry, as well as a prediction of happiness and long life. In France, the custom linked to mistletoe was reserved for New Year's Day: "Au gui l'An neuf" (Mistletoe for the New Year). Today, kisses can be exchanged under the mistletoe any time during the holiday season.

2007-12-06 08:41:34 · answer #1 · answered by heiscomingintheclouds 5 · 4 0

The Norse and Druids associated mistletoe with peace. The custom of kissing under mistletoe comes from the Roman feast of Saturnalia, a fertility related celebration around the Winter Solstice. It was the celebration of the highly sexualized Saturnalia that the Christians sought to supplant by celebrating Christ's birth at that time of year.

2016-04-07 12:01:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

The holiday's most conspicuous smaller plant is mistletoe ... Historically, mistletoe has long been associated with both magic and fertility. Sprigs of mistletoe were once fastened over the conjugal bed on the wedding night. Our modern use of mistletoe as a social aphrodisiac is clearly related.

101Hear what the LORD says to you, O house of Israel.
2This is what the LORD says:
"Do not learn the ways of the nations
or be terrified by signs in the sky,
though the nations are terrified by them.
3For the customs of the peoples are worthless;
they cut a tree out of the forest,
and a craftsman shapes it with his chisel.
4They adorn it with silver and gold;
they fasten it with hammer and nails
so it will not totter.
5Like a scarecrow in a melon patch,
their idols cannot speak;
they must be carried
because they cannot walk.
Do not fear them;
they can do no harm
nor can they do any good." Jeremiah ch. 10

2007-12-05 15:30:47 · answer #3 · answered by His eyes are like flames 6 · 1 0

The mistletoe tradition was started by a person who was (starved of kisses and wanted someone of the opposite sex to kiss)

2007-12-05 13:12:47 · answer #4 · answered by joncon 1 · 1 0

Mistletoe
Origins of its name - The common name of the plant is derived from the ancient belief that mistletoe was propagated from bird droppings. This belief was related to the then-accepted principle that life could spring spontaneously from dung. It was observed in ancient times that mistletoe would often appear on a branch or twig where birds had left droppings. "Mistel" is the Anglo-Saxon word for "dung," and "tan" is the word for "twig". So, mistletoe means "dung-on-a-twig".

2007-12-05 13:04:55 · answer #5 · answered by carin1983 2 · 1 0

Fun Fact # 2: Mistletoe is a parasite. It attatches itself to the higher branches of a tree and grows there.

2007-12-05 15:40:11 · answer #6 · answered by Molly 6 · 1 0

I love it, my boyfriend and I kiss under the mistletoe every day now in the hall when no one is looking.

2007-12-05 13:04:33 · answer #7 · answered by Jen_n_TX 2 · 2 0

i also like it! It started as a tradition in england around the 1700s. HAPPY HoLIDAYS!

2007-12-05 13:04:07 · answer #8 · answered by . 4 · 1 0

umm i heard it was latin or something and that it meant dung on a twig and that that as supposed to bring life into the guests that passed beneath it...

course this was from the sims lol.

2007-12-05 13:05:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I do!

funfact: mistletoe is poisonous.

2007-12-05 13:03:35 · answer #10 · answered by Billie V 3 · 1 0

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