I started trying for a baby this month, there is a chance i am allraedy pregnant but not sure i willl find out at the end of the week. but i am starting to wonder if i am really ready for a kid, i think that i should just enjoy my life more before making this commitement. Did any of you exeperiened the same things?
2007-12-05 12:13:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Dear Precious Dodo:
Yes! I think you are right!
And you are just honest enuff to say so!
Many Mom's & Dad's "to be" have
pondered this. It is a special &
POWERFUL Miracle that occurs!
The gift of life! Wow what a Experience!
It is ok to feel a little FEAR or
Apprehension! Again~ it is HONEST!
I wish the BEST ~for you!
Whatever happens!
You are embarking on a glorious
Pathway~ *If you are with child!
It will profoundly Enhance your life!
If NOT?
You can try AGAIN~ Dodo!
Maybe it was Magically~ NOT Meant
to be~ if you are NOT Pregnant!
Either WAY?
I'm sure you will properly deal with each
situation!
Good Luck~
Mom to BE!
:-)
You are Special!
It's ALL a WONDER to me!
Babies~ the gift of LIFE! WOW!
2007-12-05 19:03:50 · answer #1 · answered by LedHead 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 23, my husband and I have been married 3 1/2 years and we had a planned pregnancy, i am now 36 weeks pregnant, and still have second thoughts sometimes! Amongst all the excitement of being pregnant, and feeling my little baby girl moving inside me, I still have fears and anxieties all the time! But I know, with the connection I am feeling with my little baby growing inside me already that this was no mistake. I don't think anyone can be totally ready for a baby emotionally, financially, nothing but every baby is a blessing and the love you feel for the baby (even before it's born) is undescribe-able. It's amazing!
Good luck to you, make sure your married or in a stable relationship - that's my only advice for you!! Good luck, and a possible congrats is in order!!!
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2007-12-05 20:38:05 · answer #2 · answered by tonilynne 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am also TTC, no kids, but I have had these thoughts from time to time. I think it is normal- it's a life changing event, it should be a little scary. For myself, I know that I am ready and prepared to make the sacrifices involved. I've enjoyed my life until now, and I know I will continue to enjoy life as a mom (hopefully I'll become one!).
If you're not PG this month, maybe you should ease off for a little while and think it through some more, make sure it's what you really want. Talk to your partner, see what he thinks.
2007-12-05 20:19:04 · answer #3 · answered by sarah jane 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sure, I wonder the same things sometimes. We have only been married a year, and I keep thinking theres plenty of time. But, even though I've tried to ignore it, I'm just ready to be a Mommy. I know I'll make one heck of a good one. I just have that feeling that wants to nuture and care of a baby. If I don't have a child, I'll just baby my dog and my husband for the rest of our lives. I think that both of them can't wait till i get preg.!! hehehe
2007-12-05 20:24:43 · answer #4 · answered by sun day 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I've been trying for over 4 years, and I STILL stop and ask myself "am I sure?" on a weekly basis.
Good luck to you
2007-12-05 21:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by War Games AM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to get nervous, but I bet when you see BFP you'll forget just how worried you are and be thrilled. Good luck and baby dust!
2007-12-05 20:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by Under the Sea 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i experienced those things before i got married. once i got married, i was ready to have kids. are you married? maybe that's why you feel like that. it could also be that you are very young.
2007-12-05 20:28:09 · answer #7 · answered by chapped lips 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dodo, you are definitely not ready, a child is a life long commitment, no fun, believe me, if you are, get an abortion ASAP, the sooner, the better.
2007-12-05 20:18:40 · answer #8 · answered by RucoRico 4 · 0⤊ 12⤋