well im 14 and im a virgin im thinking i should lose it when i get married wat do u think???
2007-12-05 11:53:47 · 20 answers · asked by cuttiepie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Waiting until you are married is a BAD idea! You could end up married to a man that you love and do not want to hurt, but he doesn't satisfy you sexually - trust me that is NOT what any woman wants. Sex is important to healthy happy relationships. As to when you should lose your virginity, you should wait until you find a boy roughly your age who RESPECTS you and who you feel comfortable enough with to discuss things like condoms and STD's. 14 is pretty young - I recomend freshman year at college.
2007-12-05 12:01:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You lose it when you are responsible enough to take chances of having a child. When there is mutual love and maturity and believe me it is not in your early teens. Look at the mess some young adults get into and they're not even teens anymore! When you are not feeling pressured by a guy to "show your love"...how about when you are married? That way there is the love, trust, commitment and creating a future together. Not feeling sad that you gave it up to the wrong guy. Bottom line though, is what do you believe in? Be strong in what your convictions are and don't let anyone influence in what you truely believe in.
2007-12-05 20:05:12 · answer #2 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good idea. It's the best way to not have an unwanted pregnancy. Are you also going to keep your mouth virginity until then? Cause if not you still have a chance to get STDs. So be careful.
2007-12-06 20:50:33 · answer #3 · answered by Leroy J. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on other things, like what you want to be when you grow up and how you can make a positive impact on the world. Don't worry about your virginity- when you don't have to seek other's approval anymore, then you know you're old enough to decide for yourself.
2007-12-05 20:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by sarah jane 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't lose my virginity until 1 month before my 19th birthday, when I got married.
2007-12-05 20:07:10 · answer #5 · answered by Muslimah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save it, like a special gift!! because you can only give it away 1 time!! and don't let some smooth talking guy get too closeto you!! And don't fall for the line "if you love you will". Its yours, keep as long as you want!!
2007-12-05 20:05:17 · answer #6 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get married! that it a very special thing and you only want to share it with the person you spend the rest of you life with.
2007-12-05 20:13:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is ambitious... but you should not try to "Set" a date for that. That happens when you are ready. As for the marriage rule, how are you supposed to know what you like until you are stuck with it for life? No, explore when you are ready and with someone you love, whether it be before marriage or not.
2007-12-05 19:58:56 · answer #8 · answered by ChefC 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If that's what you believe than you should wait until marriage. Whatever you do, wait until you are out of high school.
2007-12-05 21:53:07 · answer #9 · answered by candy'sroom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good idea. Wait for marriage.
2007-12-05 20:00:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋