Wow!!!! Definitely sounds like a Gem/Libra and Gem/Sag issue!
Libra is a better match for Gemini. You and your boyfriend are both Air Signs (therefore have a trine compatibility, the best compatibility), which means you communicate and relate to each other in a way that you both can understand perfectly. Your conversations I'm sure are never dull as you are both intellectual people. And with both of you prone to becoming bored easily, you can probably keep each other on your toes. I don't think Libras are naturally jealous and possessive (he may have a lot of Scorpio in his chart to account for that), but Libras like to be in relationships. And the fear of losing a relationship (especially with such a bright and witty Gemini like yourself) is torturing your boyfriend. On top of all that, the Air Signs are flighty and can tend to look elsewhere for relationships, so there's not a whole lot of stability. But talk it out with your Libra. Tell him you need your freedom and you need him to trust you. Approach it logically. And make sure you make time for him. I'm sure he'll come around (unless he does have a lot of Scorpio in his charts and to that, good luck).
The issues with your Sag ex sound very true to an opposition matching. Sags and Geminis are opposite on the zodiac wheel. This means that there is and was a major attraction to each other that simply couldn't be denied. The Gem is intrigued by the fun-loving, fiery attitude of the Sag. And the Sag is impressed by the wit and friendliness of the Gem. However, you both wanted to take on the same role in the relationship which caused major and passionate fights. All opposition compatibility is tricky in the sense of it starts as an amazing attraction and deteriorates into horrific fights. So I can see where you two would have drama.
So astrologically, you'd probably be best to stay with the Libra or maybe find an Aquarius (you're trine with Aquarius as well). They are the best matches for Geminis. Just make sure you let your Libra know you're still around and still care a great deal for him and talk it all out. And if need be, stick up for yourself. As a fellow Air Sign, he should respect your independence and flighty personality. I'd also be weary of the Sag. You never know when the opposition thing is gonna blow up, and it can get real ugly when it does. No matter what happens, good luck with it all!!!
2007-12-05 10:52:18
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answered by Anonymous
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Gemini & Libra: 8/10
This is considered to be a great astrological compatibility match up for a long and happy relationship. Both signs have a lot in common and enough contrast to make an ideal partnership. Libra being under Venus's influence and Mercury ruling Gemini makes for a very good planetary configuration. Both favor similar changes of interests. In the case of this pair, Libra is the judge and Gemini the responsive jury in the nuptial courthouse. The combination's intellectual and artistic interests are compatible. The Libra will understand both sides of the Gemini nature. This will be a very stimulating relationship. One sign compliments the other and brings out the better part of each other's nature. Gemini will find it easy to communicate with Libra that is only too happy to share information and ideas. This makes Libra and Gemini a very good match indeed!
Sagittarius & Gemini: 4/10
They both need to have a lot of personal freedom but in different ways. Sagittarius must always feel that he/she is free and can do anything he/she pleases, whereas Gemini will only want to do the forbidden, or restricted. Although sometimes a ******, Sagittarius cannot abide anyone nagging him/her, which will give the feel of restricting his/her personal freedom; this will eventually drive Sagittarius away. They meet on a common ground, and can plan their lives with equanimity. Sometimes there will be times when the love nest will become ruffled and the feathers will fly, these lovebirds will fight more for the sake of diversion then for blood.
GEMINI goes with Libra, Aquarius, Leo and Gemini.
Best Match For Gemini Is Gemini
This is a great combination. It may sound somewhat confusing considering that there will be four of you around (lol), but you can really understand each other. The synastry is there, it is a perfect match.
Worst Match For Gemini is Cancer
You are too active for this one. The Cancer will want to stay home and cling, so to speak, while you want to go out roam, do things. Forget it! Your energy level is too much higher then the Cancer, and this will in most cases be too much to overcome.
Love & Blessings
Milly
2007-12-05 10:23:50
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answered by milly_1963 7
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Libra is the better match for Gemini.
2007-12-05 10:28:17
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answered by Heidi T 7
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I learned that Gemini and Libra are better, but its usually when the girl is a Libra and the boy is a Gemini, check it out on the sources I gave you.
2007-12-07 11:08:17
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answered by Mica Claro 3
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GEMINI AND LIBRA COMPATIBILITY
You relate to Libra in an exciting, creative sense. The signs Gemini and Libra are trained, or compatible. You are aroused physically by Libra. Libra touches the area of your solar horoscope associated with love, sex, affection, courtship and self-expression. The Gemini-Libra combination equals Mercury and Venus, and the two signs together can make profound music. Plainly, this is no relationship that can be laughed off, tampered with or taken as a lark. If you're not serious, Gemini, don't become involved with Libra. The stakes are too high, including children, affection, and the very heartbeat of your being. You see, this is not the very heartbeat of your being. You see this is not the kind of association you turn on or off. Once on, the light burns brightly. Once on, the heat generated leads forward, to complications, to involvement. We should repeat, perhaps; if you don't intend to get involved, don't start with Libra in the first place.
Listen, Gemini: you learn from Libra of dedication and love. You learn to give, to exchange and to receive graciously. It's very important to adhere to principles. Once you fall down on these, the relationship suffers. The higher you set your sights, the better for both you and Libra. Your wonderful teaching and reporting qualities are stimulated by the relationship. Your creative resources are brought forward. Children could have muck to do with this relationship. Gemini with Libra is especially harmonious when dealing with youngsters. Basically, the relationship is healthy. The attraction is there and it could, for you, represent basic fulfillment. You may find Libra too placid. You may want Libra to possess more get-up-and-go. But the steadying influence here could be advantageous. Patience, Gemini patience!
GEMINI AND SAGITTARIUS COMPATIBILITY
Here is a case of opposites attracting each other; that's the way it is with Gemini and Sagittarius. The Jupiter of Sagittarius blends with your Mercury to signify responsibility, money, powerful emotions, and intensified relations. Sagittarius can cheer you, stimulate ambition, help educate you and cause you to concentrate on a goal. Sagittarius spotlights that part of your solar horoscope related to marriage, contracts, legal affairs, partnerships and public relations. Natives of this sign touch that part of your chart related to the way the world looks to you. And, very often, Sagittarius looks attractive to you.
There are no halfway measures here; it is all the way or nothing. Once the knot is tied, once the relationship gets started, there are responsibilities and an air of permanency. The affairs of Gemini and Sagittarius inter- mingle. It definitely is not a matter of hit-and-run. Know this, Gemini, and act accordingly. You can make money with Sagittarius. You gain authority through added responsibility. Sagittarius can kelp make you feel more secure. Sagittarius philosophizes; Gemini is active. These traits form a bond of attraction. An association with Sagittarius could he serious business. It could lead to a commitment, to anything from a business contract, to a partnership, to marriage. Sagittarius helps make you more optimistic. You see where you are headed - and can detect ultimate profit. Your days of aimless journey are over when you team with Sagittarius.
You could decide on it.
2007-12-05 10:29:36
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answered by Srivy 3
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a sag. we're talking about a gemini that has various attitudes that make up their personality, only someone with a speed like the sag can play catch up. about the drama, when you have passion then likely you'll have drama attached to it.
2007-12-05 10:24:15
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answered by ocean deep 5
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me i'm a cancer i can teach u some things
2007-12-05 10:23:21
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answered by Anonymous
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