a straight guy? If so why? If not, how do you feel?
Please assume that they guy doesnt know you're lesbian.
2007-12-05 07:46:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yes I mean asked out
2007-12-05 08:06:12 · update #1
It all depends on *what* I am asked by a straight Gentleman and *how* I am asked. He might ask me for directions or he might ask me out for a drink. Either way my reply would all depend on the tone of his voice and the manner in which he asked. I'm usually a very polite Lady and would reply in the same manner. if, however, someone would ask me in a derogatory tone or worse, an insultory one, they deserve what they get -- which will not be pretty. Lesbian or not, my Dear One, I usually give people their one chance to make amends and no Gentleman should be insultory to a Lady. After that, God help them. I don't need to raise my voice to make my ire heard.
2007-12-05 07:58:32 · answer #1 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
A lesbian shouldn't feel uncomfortable or offended if a straight guy were to ask her out, because the word, "lesbian" probably isn't tattooed on her forehead. In fact, she should feel a sense of flattery.
=)
2007-12-05 07:55:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Im guessing you meant to say asked OUT by a straight guy...
And yes, I do get asked out by straight men all the time.. I have a really friendly personality and work with the public so it happens frequently. It doesnt make me uncomfortable because Im very secure in who I am. I just smile sweetly and tell them thank you and Im flattered but I have a partner and she's very jealous. They are left with their "manhood" intact and no harsh or uncomfortable feelings on either side.
*edit*
I.I. - "...should feel a sense of flattery."
um.. while I may TELL them Im flattered, Im not. I say I am to keep the situation pleasant. EXPECTING that a woman SHOULD feel flattered just because a man asked her out is stupid. THAT same logic would apply to all straight men being asked out by gay guys and we ALL know where that would end up... a gang asss kicking on the guy who asked.
So please, I.I., dont say we SHOULD feel flattered just because someone showed interest in us. That rather leaves me with a collar and leash feeling.
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2007-12-05 07:54:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 1⤋
I even have no longer something against men in any respect. that's flattering whilst somebody famous me eye-catching regardless of their gender. And residing in a worldwide packed with only women human beings could be uninteresting. as long as a guy accepts the reality that i'm no longer into him and not in any respect would be, he can no longer watch, and there is no changing my innovations...then we get alongside superb. My friends love and recognize me for who i'm, as a actual pal could desire to, and that i do no longer settle for or deny that love in keeping with which sexual organs a individual has : )
2016-10-10 08:15:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't feel uncomfortable,I'm usually very flattered to be honest,I've been asked out a lot by guys and each time is an ego boost,it's human nature to feel good when others (no matter what sex they are) find you attractive.
2007-12-06 08:10:59 · answer #5 · answered by munki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asked what?? Out??
I'm not offended, but what worse part is when you say No, I'm a lesbian and guys get this like glaze in their eyes dreaming about you and your gf. Wishing he could get in on the action. Being asked out period is flattery, but don't act like a perv when we turn you down.
2007-12-05 08:06:48 · answer #6 · answered by BluGrrl 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Not really, sometimes a little annoyed, but nothing serious. It sometimes puts me in an awkward situation because I wonder if I should tell him that I'm a lesbian or just say that I'm not interested...but really it's no big deal, unless he keeps trying to pursue me.
2007-12-05 07:56:37 · answer #7 · answered by Moxie! 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I am honored that someone would take the time to ask me out. I am going to assume that is what you were going to ask. Then I tell them that I am in a relationship. I never volunteer any information about my sexual preference.
2007-12-05 07:53:25 · answer #8 · answered by gabriel l 6 · 7⤊ 0⤋
im flatteredby anyone asking me out, tehn id just have a word with the guy, and explain im gay and have a gf! id be cool, if the guy was when i told him, and still go 4 a drink with the guy x
2007-12-05 10:47:33 · answer #9 · answered by EMILY S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I'm not uncomfortable when a str8 guy asks me out. I just tell him I'm in a relationship already, but I'm flattered that he asked.
2007-12-05 07:58:56 · answer #10 · answered by FTW 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋