I have been ttc#1 going on 7th month and I am just losing my hope. I pray and I pray and I do everything "right" I TRY to relax but honestly who can just relax when they want something so bad? well, I wish all you ttc out there the best of luck and baby dust galore! and wish me some back too! thanks! =) well maybe I am just not meant to be preggers right now?! thanks too all of you whom have listened to me and answered my questions and etc. it means the world to me to know I am not the only one out there ttc. thank you!!!
*~*~*~BABY DUST*~*~*
2007-12-05 07:30:12 · 11 answers · asked by determined for baby #1 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
just reading these answers made me cry. and I am really not one to cry all that much. but I am losing hope.. =(
2007-12-05 07:50:42 · update #1
well they have these things on www.fertell.com than you can test your eggs and sperm, what do you think of these? ( I am asking because I really cant go see a doctor yet) I will wait until May and if I am not preggers by than (which I hope I am 5 months by than!) than I am going to go get checked out! But what do you think of those test at www.fertell.com ??? thanks
2007-12-05 13:28:10 · update #2
My heart breaks for everyone out there TCC and then get AF including myself. I wanted to cry last night, I was so depressed, its a month since my AF and I haven't even ovulated yet, but I'm only been trying 2 months and I know it can take a lot longer. Good luck and baby dust to everyone
2007-12-05 07:36:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get sad, I know how hard it is. I ttc for almost 7 months and each month I feel like you.I try everything, even those ovulations tests, and lay down legs up after sex, etc. And each month I will take my pregnancy test 5 days before my period for about 2 weeks (lots of money spend) I was so sad and each month I would blame my self for things I did in the past like smoking thinking that I may had lower my posibilities to get pregnant now. So in the 7 month I wasn't even expecting get pregnant, at that point I already lose any hope and I was ready to go see a doctor. My period got late and I did a test and it was negative, so I just keep waiting for my period. After 2 weeks I try again and it was positive. It may sounds weird but I think that as soon as I stop thinking about the baby, is when I got pregnant. I know this will be hard but from now until May try to enjoy sex and relax, If after that still no happen. Then you should go to the doctor. But you never know maybe it happen to you before than what you think. Baby dust for you and don't give up!!
About those test that you talk about, I think that you should wait until May and after that instead of risk your money in something that may no work, go see a doctor, he will know better what tests are right and effective. BTW, I hear today in Fox 5 news that foods that help to get pregnant is foods with Iron and for your husband drink coffee. I am not sure about that but is what they say at the news. So it doesn't hurt to try.
Good luck!!
2007-12-05 16:50:09 · answer #2 · answered by Yovana C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. Do not lose hope. Have you tried calling your doc yet. I called my doc and have an appt on the 19th of this month. Maybe there is something going on thats not letting it work out for you and the hubby. Has he had his sperm tested? These are just a few of my opinions. Just keep on trying, no matter how difficult it is to see AF each month, you have to keep the faith and keep trying. If we would just give up, then we definitly would never get the BFP. I too am with you in the ttc madness. I am just now beginning my 7th mth of trying and i have never imagined it would be this hard. Keep your head high and dont give up!!
good luck-
2007-12-05 12:15:17 · answer #3 · answered by Baby #2 due June 29, 2010! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aww, sweetie don't get discouraged. You will become pregnant when you least expect it. You have only been trying for 7 months, so its to soon to be thinking so negative, think of the people who've been trying for years and years. My aunt tried for 10 years and out of the blew she ended up pregnant this year, and just had a healthy baby boy last week. Our minds sometimes are ahead of our bodies, we want a baby so bad, but our body is just not ready. Are you tracking your ovulation with an OPK? In another 2 months, if you are still not prego, I would go to the doctor and get some test done for you and your partner.
Baby dust your way--08 could be your year :) !
Cheer up, I've been trying for 2 years and I went on Clomid last month because I have irregular periods and don't know when I"m ovulating, I'm praying its a success!
2007-12-05 07:38:29 · answer #4 · answered by babyhope1024 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain!! Nothing like thinking it might have happened only to find out AF was just around the corner and is stopping in for another visit!!
It's an unfair emotional rollercoaster some of us have to ride and there's not rhyme or reason to why.
I wish you a lot of baby dust, don't lose hope, it can happen and will.
With the hard work and dedication it will make it that much more of a miracle when you can hold your precious baby in your arms!!
2007-12-05 07:42:51 · answer #5 · answered by JesJ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't lose hope its hard and frustrating we all here no, its only been 7 months no need to feel down, it takes and adverage couple to concieve in 1 year, I am ttc#1 also and fighting it threw pcos I have been trying for years I really want to lose hope but I just can't give up, carry faith as you go and the battle would be easier, Remember that there is a God who hears all things, who feels are pain, who knows our heart desire, I no your tire of hearin ppl say just relax and i'll happen or stop thinking about but don't worry about what they be saying just stay focus on your dream and in no time you'll be here saying "I GOT MY BFP"
Baby dust to you
2007-12-05 08:33:39 · answer #6 · answered by Mom of 2 w/ PCOS 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened to me today. I have been trying for 6 months and I feel the exact same way. I think I am going to try for 2 more months and then go ahead to a doctor and make sure everythings working ok. I just can't wait a whole year. Good luck to you and to everyone in this situation and NEVER GIVE UP HOPE!!!
2007-12-05 08:36:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't lose hope girl ! I have been ttc for 3mths now, supposed to get AF on the 13th.It can be really hard, It depresses me to think, about all the years I was on the pill, all the money I spent to prevent being pregnant, and now that I want to its like..nothing...I get discouraged, and I hope, I hope, this is my month, but I can't help getting a little depressed thinking that it might not be.. .I am just happy I have you girls to talk to about it, I feel like someone understands, because it is hard to talk to people about it who are not in the same boat as you... Keep your chin up, it will happen!!
Baby dust to you!!
2007-12-05 08:04:20 · answer #8 · answered by risac 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't lose hope!!! Please... That is the last thing you should do right now.
But I do believe that you are stressing yourself out of getting pregnant.
I know you are really trying to relax but believe me... Our minds know the truth and I know what it is like to think I am relaxing and I really am not.
I would ask your doctor to reccomend you to a fertility doctor and go get tested. They usually make you wait until 1 year of TTC but they don't have to know that. You doctor is the only one that knows so who cares if you are a few months off.
Then you can get tested and know what really is going on.
What do ya think?
2007-12-06 05:34:39 · answer #9 · answered by Neen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm due tomorrow but so far no symptoms? I had some brown discharge on days 16 and 17...weird but that's about it. I try not to look too much into it but it's not easy. Hang in there hon...and best wishes for a BFP! :)
2016-05-28 08:00:06 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋