2007-12-05 05:42:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
yah that's cool just tell to say 3 hail mary's when you are finished.
2007-12-05 05:46:43 · answer #1 · answered by Snookles © 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sure if you want to. It should be something both of you want.
There is NOTHING wrong with sex, before marriage, outside of marriage or after marriage. Marriage is a property construct after all -- but then again, I don't think that the Bible is anything other than a book composed from a group of gospels and letters by a vote of bishops at the Council of Carthage in 397 AD in order to support existing doctrines already enshrined in the Nicean Creed... Oh... wait... that isn't a matter of belief... it IS how the Bible came into existence.
I wouldn't take what it says about sex, or about anything, very seriously. Early Christians didn't, why do some modern ones?
Regards,
Reyn
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2007-12-05 16:38:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This hurts me to read! I know that these other answers are probably more along the lines of what you WANT to hear, but please wait before you do something that you will both regret.
My husband and I are both Christians. I am 23 and he is 25, and we knew on our first date that our relationship was going to be it. We were (are) very much in love, and while it was an enormous struggle for us to keep ourselves sexually pure, it was also a huge blessing to go to bed as husband and wife rather than boyfriend and girlfriend.
Our wedding night was awkward and not necessarily satisfying, but I could not be more grateful that we waited. Knowing that I was his first and he was mine was the greatest gift that we could have given each other. If you really love your boyfriend, make sure that he still has that gift to give to his wife - be it you or anyone else. Respect his future wife, and respect his morals, and you will really be a girlfriend worth having :)
2007-12-05 19:02:02 · answer #3 · answered by loveisthenewhip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow ,He's good. That's the best line I've ever heard and when he leaves you after he gets what he wants he will tell you it's because he just can not deal with the guilt of having sinned for you. He will say his punishment for having sinned is to move on without you.
2007-12-05 13:49:20 · answer #4 · answered by darbygirl 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If he's "willing to sin", then he still believes it's wrong. This could lead to some serious regret on his part in the future, and could cause problems in your relationship. He could resent you for it.
If it isn't an issue for you, but he believes it's a sin...wait. It shows that you respect his beliefs.
2007-12-05 13:56:09 · answer #5 · answered by War Games AM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm, this sounds a little odd to me. If I were a Christan and didn't believe in sex before marriage I don't think I would change that for anybody, especially somebody that i wasn't even sure I was going to marry. (Just my opinion) I think deep down he wants sex, he just can't or either won't admit it.
2007-12-05 18:07:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is willing to compromise his spiritual integrity...then I would actually question his sincerity regarding you....
it sounds a LOT like a game he is playing....making you feel special because he would never commit a sin...but you are special, so he would take the chance on it......honey, I would seriously reexamine this relationship....something doesn't seem to add up here, if you know what I mean.
2007-12-05 13:47:18 · answer #7 · answered by Oberon 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if hes telling you that, then hes not fully commited to God. or you for that matter. if he was, then it wouldnt be about sex. it would be about getting to know you. hes givin you a line and i wouldnt trust him with a 10 ft pole.
2007-12-05 13:51:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him remain pure and a virgin. Go have all the sex you want with someone else until he is ready to get married.
2007-12-05 13:50:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yeahhhh...is that what he told you....
I think he's ready to sin with anyone...
Pulees - he was willing before he met you.
2007-12-05 13:45:52 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋