Firstly i'll tell you that I'm a very shy person but quite good looking to be realistic and shes a very good looking woman.
I am in my late teens and this woman is in her mid-late twenties.
We don't talk but she always moves close to me and touches me. E.g. if I have my arm out she'd move her body towards it and lean on it.
I'm confused and want to know what's going on as she's married too.
Am I just a tool for her fun?
Does anyone have similar experiences?
2007-12-05 05:38:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she See's you as a way of recapturing the spontaneity of youth, though at 20's she is still very young. Being married she may feel abandoned and See's in you the qualities of her husband. Are you attracted to her? does she see your actions as that of an interested party?
I wouldn't wish to ask further or try to answer but some young men in your position would let nature take it's course and enjoy the experience. However you risk everything, so make sure you are confident that what you perceive is actually what is happening. You could be reading too much into the situation
2007-12-05 05:55:17 · answer #1 · answered by Philip P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to save her body nudges for her husband and to leave you the hell alone.
She's probably bored and wants some excitement in her life,but you can do without her involving you,especially as she is married,you'd be the one that cops it when it all came out,and these things usually do have a way of coming out,eventually. She's playing with fire here,and she's not exactly thinking that you could actually fall for her at all,you're not a toy she can just pick up and drop when it suits her.
If you don't want to say anything to her,the next time she brushed any part of her body against you,just move out of the way,she'll get the message eventually,if she has a brain!
Find someone who is single and plays less mind games.
2007-12-05 05:56:35 · answer #2 · answered by tinyfeet64 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you might just be a tool for her fun. If she's married and in her mid-twenties, she really should be concentrating on her marriage and not flirting with you. Please don't get involved, you will only be on the losing end. Please don't get into a "Pamela Smart" situation with her. Do you remember Pamela Smart, the school teacher who became sexually involved with one of her students and he and some of his friends killed her husband. Now they are all in prison and she received a life sentence because she masterminded the entire incident.
2007-12-05 06:31:52 · answer #3 · answered by SweetnSpiceyBrown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course!! what could you get out of a all ready made family? your still young and can still Rome!she find it exciting that she can have her cake and eat it to.she feel at this point she can tame you for future disaster be careful dude before she try to pull a fast tec on you ...be smart play her at her own game ...no what your doing before she no you no feel me
2007-12-05 05:53:52 · answer #4 · answered by another sass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may not be getting attention at home,and now is testing to see if young men still find her attractive,ill bet your not the only one,but if you were to try to kiss her for example,she may go straight to her husband and tell him to make him jelous,your walking on very thin ice here kid,id keep my distance.
2007-12-05 17:44:45 · answer #5 · answered by fozz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps she wants some fun with you, and wants you to have fun with her. that's not using anyone as a tool. the idea of having fun with someone is also that they have fun with you too.
2007-12-06 12:35:29 · answer #6 · answered by blackhole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a quicky dude
2007-12-05 09:14:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋