If you're having sex with your lady and you don't reach an orgasm, is it because she's just not doing it for you, or are there other reasons?
2007-12-05 03:35:10 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
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2007-12-05 03:56:04 · update #1
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2007-12-05 04:01:57 · update #2
Cause of other reasons like too much alcohol.....stupid beer...I hate you, no i dont im sorry
2007-12-05 04:00:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well that happens all the time....
First.. .Are you having sex on a regular biases? If so there is your answer.
My wife and i have a great sex life. There is hardly a day that goes by without us being intimate. Usually more than once a day. That usually causes a situation when I am unable to reach climax. Nothing to do with not being attracted to or her not doing it for me.. as you put it... It is just simply a physical reaction to being drained, so to speak. hahaha.
Now... on the good side of this hand... This is usually a really good thing for my wife. It causes our intimate sessions to last a really long time and since she is multi-orgasmic it works to her favor.
So enjoy and have fun. You are on the winning end of this little situation, and I can tell you honestly.. He is not disappointed or upset in any way if this is happening to him.
In fact I'm sure he is enjoying it extensively.
Look at it this way.. You could have the opposite problem, and him being premature ejaculater... COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS GURL!!! hahahaha
Gotta say... I love your questions!
2007-12-05 12:12:54 · answer #2 · answered by USMCstingray 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are lots of reasons why a guy might not be able to orgasm on a particular night, including alcohol, drugs (either recreational or medicinal), depression, stress, having to pee, trying to hold back from peeing, trying to hold back from passing gas (one hates to ruin the moment), trying to hold back from burping, missing the wave, a mother-in-law in the next room, worries about money, worries about the kids walking in, worries about the look on the dog's face, worries about the look on your face, worries about not being able to reach orgasm, a headache, a back ache, a stomach ache, arms getting tired, "it" getting tired, "it" getting sore, the sore on "it", his breath, her breath, the dog's breath, the score in the game, the excitement of having scored, how many times is this now, who is this, what's her name, what does this mean about the relationship, is it ok if I leave right after this, grandma walking in (again), why tonight, why she did that, why she said that, what did she mean by that, why she called him "Tony", who is Tony, isn't Tony the kid that cuts the lawn, are those real, is she faking, is she in pain, what's that pain, what's that sound, what's that on the floor, why are my cuff links on the floor, who's cuff links are on the floor, who's she been with this time, I'm gonna have to pay for this, how much is this gonna cost me, do I leave a tip, where do I leave the tip, will she get mad if I leave a tip, will she get mad if I don't leave a tip, there goes her tip, does she look married, did she say she was married, did I say I was married, there goes the marriage, there goes my 401k, there goes my winnings, how will I explain this, how long should I wait, am I waiting long enough, am I not long enough, am I too long, it's been too long, it's taking too long, its not gonna happen, this always happens, this never happens, its happening again, why is this happening, what happened?!!
Or she may not be doing it for him that particular night.
2007-12-05 21:21:35 · answer #3 · answered by Chris C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I don't reach orgasm, It's only because I'm not with you. You're the only one for me.
Seriously, if a guy is not reaching orgasm, it is because of him- not you. Could be psychological, but more likely physical. Is he in good physical shape otherwise? Good overall health helps a lot- good diet, exercise, etc.
I'm in shape for you. Anytime you find yourself on this side of the planet, look me up.
2007-12-05 14:40:12 · answer #4 · answered by Ron L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time is other... he might have alot on his mind, work might be getting to him, family issues..
My bf sometimes has that problem, but is going through alot, child support issues, work going crazy, sibling fighting, a bit overwhelming
It's natural
2007-12-05 11:40:22 · answer #5 · answered by Pirate ♥ Kitten 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Are women supposed to have orgasms? News to me.
Misread the question. 8 pints of Guinness and a few g&ts can be a hindrance
2007-12-05 11:57:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Wow, uhm.......wow
I didn't know that it was actually possible that a guy can't.
These were interesting answers
and now I'm totally hyper aware and will never EVER have sex again.
2007-12-05 17:45:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually that happens if I drank too much, my guy down there is a lightweight. If my woman doesn't have one or two then I won't get one at all.
2007-12-05 11:57:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
other reasons, maybe too tired, to much on mind, too drunk lol or many other things but luckily for me any woman I have been with has gotten me off. If not with sex then after wards with mouth or hands, they did'nt leave me hanging so to speak.
2007-12-05 11:38:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ive never encountered that particular problem before! The women I've beedn bless to mn ow have all gotten me off just fine!!! I loved every one of them!!!
2007-12-05 15:36:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋