Im 27..couldnt imagine being with a 14 yr old, nasty!! Do these girls realize they are being MOLESTED??..Concentual or not..Kids are not on the same level as these men, they are being taken for a ride..no pun intended..lol
2007-12-05 03:14:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
The younger the girl, the more inexperienced (this could be sexually or just in life in general..) which means they don't know how sick these guys are T.T
These girls are young and usually if they're meeting up with guys online (which is typically the case) then they're looking for maybe affection they don't get elsewhere, or they want love, or they feel like they'd be mature for their age if they can get an older guy or whatnot.
These guys know this.
They know that these girls would probably be willing to do a lot of things to keep someone happy if it means "love" or such.
It's sick.
Not just the sexual part of it, but the truly messed up mind games it involves.
I can only imagine what kind of psychological damage that could do to a girl (or what kind of psychological damage it takes for a man to do that to a girl.....)
2007-12-05 08:33:39 · answer #1 · answered by Tacc 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sadly enough, no, most of these girls are too young and immature to know they are being sexually molested and taken advantage of by these pedophiles. Pedophillia of this type is an illness, and the men who engage in such behavior are mentally ill- many of them violently so. These men deserve and need to be locked up- because they are threats to every young girl or woman, and because most of them have impulses which they can't control. ( If they could control their behavior, they wouldn't be pedophiles.) Pedophilla has numerous causes, and not all of them are well understood. Many scientists believe that there is a genetic component to this illness as well- that at least some of the men who are afflicted with it are born with a genetic predisposition to such disorders. It's known that pedophillia and related disorders are also related to antisocial personality disorder, which is the condition that made people like Ted Bundy and Jeffrey Dahmer into serial murderers. ASPD cannot be cured, it can only be managed, and those who have it need to be kept locked up as well, because they too are threats to society and other people. Some men are just born bad- and science is slowly providing us with some reasons why this happens.
I am glad you recognize that what these men do is wrong- it may keep you from trying or attempting the same thing yourself.
2007-12-05 05:21:34 · answer #2 · answered by Starlight 1 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Quick fact: Paedophilia is distinguished by someone attracted to someone who has NOT reached puberty.
I know in these times of intolerance you aren't separating men by 26 or 46 (me). I agree that me (46 years old) dating a 14 year old girl is perverted, however not for the 26 year old (to me that's a male in development, sometimes a boy).
1) If the relationship is OK and consensual it's not wrong or abusive. A 35 year old can abuse a 35 year old.
2) It's also talked about how girls develop faster than boys, we seem to exclude this always in this conversation by some reason.
3) Boys a lot of times dscover girls later than girls discover boys.
4) Female likes older, male llikes younger.
2007-12-06 03:04:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im 15 and i went with a 22 year old yea i was dumb yea hes a loser thats tha reason i dont date any others anymore. I think the men do it because they want to either be a child again or theor mind arent ready for grown women yet they are immature and alot of grown women wont put up with that so since "US" gurls are so stupid and immature they talk to us and they know if they say were pretty they will probably get to sleep with us. Which is the reason i hardly want date anymore.
2007-12-05 12:41:20 · answer #4 · answered by Bubbagumbootylicous15 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
because these girls think its cool to be 12 and dating a 28 year old guy
they lie to the guy oh jake i am 18 when in truth shes 12
they dress older wear a pound or five of make up the offer sex on a first date not always the guys fault
2007-12-05 05:19:11 · answer #5 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It is definitely a disturbing thing. Those older men are sexual predators and it seems they have a fetish for younger girls- they usually do not want to be with women their own age, they prefer younger, underage girls. They usually like the fact that they can control the younger girls since they are not experienced with such things.
I don't understand how many of these men think it's alright to be with such a young girl.
2007-12-05 03:22:05 · answer #6 · answered by Madison 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It is because they are F*cked up in the head, thay are probably really pedophiles who have twisted fantasies about the hanging and flirting with people who are not even in their age group, and it is illegal btw, and these men ought to be locked up, instead of being allowed to run wild.
2007-12-05 03:35:10 · answer #7 · answered by Will 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Because these men are depraved, and need to be locked up, I have kids and I'd spend the rest of my life in jail if someone ever came after them. It's disgusting!
2007-12-05 03:17:55 · answer #8 · answered by Corgis4Life 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I think its because they know that most older women or women around their own age aren't going to go for the same s h i t that little girls will go for. They know they can manipulate and use them.
2007-12-05 07:37:54 · answer #9 · answered by Nikita J 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because the girls are too young and inexperienced to realize what losers the men are.
And because young inexperienced girls are easy to manipulate.
2007-12-05 03:34:56 · answer #10 · answered by helene 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋