How could I convince my mom to put me on birth control with out letting her know Im having sex
2007-12-05 03:03:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
I'm 16 years old and I dont have any money so I cant go to planned parenthood especially if they charge
2007-12-05 08:33:56 · update #1
I wouldn't be surprised if she already knew you were having sex.
But Planned Parenthood, or going to your doctor with complaints of heavy bleeding and cramps.
Of course, if your periods are light and you have had no severe cramping, you might not pull it off as easily as you think you will.
2007-12-05 04:05:19 · answer #1 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, only way, you need talk your mom if you want get a birth control. Your mom is fully responsible to take care of you. But you don't have to tell her that you had sex. Your mom very concern you very much. She might take you to the doctor, if you want get a birth control. Some doctor will not give you birth control duriing your puberty. You need to very careful. Try not do any more sex. There is good chance getting pregnancy. Just be careful with them.
Wishing you good Luck........take care
2007-12-05 03:20:18 · answer #2 · answered by sabrinaelder 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could tell her that you would like it to make you period more regular and the cramps less severe, or if you have acne issues it also helps with that. Or you can go to planned parenthood and get it without her knowing, they are not allowed to tell your parents unless you give permission.
2007-12-05 03:07:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what country you are writing from, but in most places you can just go to your local family planning clinic and they will be happy to give you all the information you need. They are usually very nice too so there's no need to be embarrased/scared. Then you can talk about it with your mom when you are both ready later on.
2007-12-05 03:13:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
THERE IS NO WAY TO DO THAT...MOTHERS ARENT STUPID, THEY HAVE BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, SO KNOW MATTER HOW U GO ABOUT IT SHE WILL KNOW... U WILL BE SURPRISED HOW MUCH RESPECT YOU WOULD GAIN FROM HER BY SHOOTING HER STRAIGHT...JUST SIT HER DOWN AND TELL HER THE TRUTH "MOM, I AM SEXUALLY ACTIVE, BUT I AM BEING RESPONSIBLE, HELP ME GET BIRTH CONTROL" THIS DAY AND TIME, SHE SHOULD UNDERSTAND, WHEN SHE KNOWS U ARE BEING SAFE, IT WILL EASE HER MOIND ALSO...
U COULD ALWAYS GO TO THE HEALTH DEPARTMENT AND TRY THERE TO GET IT SECRETLY, BUT IF...SHE FINDS IT IT WILL DESTROY HER TRUST IN U AND YOU WILL LOSE ALOT OF RESPECT..
2007-12-05 03:21:09 · answer #5 · answered by cdlfamilyof4 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to be upfront and honest with your Mom.I think you can go to plan parenthood and get some information from them.Please use other protections since you have not started on the pill.
2007-12-05 03:20:07 · answer #6 · answered by Dew 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ask her if you can get some to regulateyour period hlp with acne and cramps also birth control isnt 100% efective so use a condem with it
2007-12-05 03:10:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can also consider using natural birth control since chemical birth control has numerous side effects and can kill your libido permanently.
(see links below)
2007-12-05 03:15:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you have really heavy bleeding and really bad cramps.
2007-12-05 03:06:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋