my husband and i been trying so hard to have a baby is there any tricks am i missing something?

Answer 1

Stop trying. Thats the surest easiest way to get pregnant.

When you try to make something happen you cause stress on your body and THAT keeps it from happening. Not to mention that having sex more than every 2-3 days depletes his sperm count so you end up firing blanks.

The best advice ever is to get busy with life and stop trying, just have sex because it feels good at the moment.

Answer 2

Sad to say, but there are no tricks. You can try propping your hips up after sex for 20 minutes. You can chart your temps to give you an edge. You could have sex every other day while you think your ovulating. But all any of that does is make you beleive you're doing something GREAT...in fact, it only gives you a slight edge.

I say, if you've been TTC for a year or more, then it's time to go to the doctor.

Whatever you do, don't let the people who say 'Just Relax' get to you. You know you can't relax. I know you can't relax.

My husband and I tried 8 years...we're due in January and I STILL haven't relaxed!!

Good Luck and don't ever lose sight of the prize.

Answer 3

you can only gt pregnant when you ovulate, so I think you are probably past that time window now. However, the last 8 days may have put you at the right time. I would wait, see if you get your period, test if not. As for next month, you can use lots of web sites (I use web md ovulation calendar) to predict your most fertile period. You can also buy ovulation sticks, which are similar to prego tests, but they tell you when you should do it in order to get pregnant. Good luck.

Answer 4

Your probally are not missing anything, If you are doing everything right then i think its time to go to a doctor to see if there is a fertility issue.. My husband and I have been trying for 3 years and no luck...

Answer 5

lots of sex