Before I got pregnant, we had really nice relationship. But with all that hormones occuping my brain, I now can't stand him. He drives me crazy, no matter what he is doing. Just idea of him kissing me gross me out. Is it going to go away? I am 21 weeks and I though it would be better after first trimester, but it is worse.
2007-12-05 02:05:03 · 12 answers · asked by Matahari 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Totally understand, I can hardly stand being around my husband at all. He makes me crazy.
2007-12-05 02:19:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so glad to know that I am not the only one.I am now 36 weeks along and me and my husband have only slept together 6 times this entire pregnancy. He grosses me out. He makes me so mad and irritable. I can't even stand the way he gets onto my kids that we already have. Which they are girls. I am pregnant with a boy so I blame it on all the male hormone inside me.I am sure it will get better. For me and you both I hope it does get better at least after delivery
2007-12-05 02:12:25 · answer #2 · answered by mommy to three 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he understands that you are going through a lot of hormone changes, things will be fine between you two. I'm the opposite of you, all I want to do is cuddle with my husband and in turn, I'm driving him nuts! Everyone has different reactions to the hormones. It will go away once your hormones regulate themselves again.
2007-12-05 02:21:07 · answer #3 · answered by Karla 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate COMPLETELY. My S/O tried really hard to help me out and tries being extra nice, and even THAT drives me nuts. I hate it when he tries to touch me, and I don't understand why. It must be normal, because I know a lot of people who have felt the same way. I also know it will go away, because those same people are still happy with MORE children :o). Have you tried explaining to your husband how you're feeling? Maybe he'll understand. Good luck!
2007-12-05 02:31:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through that for a very long time. I loathed him when he was near me and cried when he wasn't home.. strange. I always tried my best to spare his feelings, because I knew that logically.. I loved him and it was the hormones making me feel this way. It may or may not get better... just try to hang in there and be as nice as you can to him so that it doesn't hurt your relationship. For someone who isn't pregnant, it is difficult to understand that someone could be grossed out or driven crazy by someone they're supposed to love... so just try to keep his feelings in mind. Good luck!
2007-12-05 02:17:06 · answer #5 · answered by Holy Macaroni! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its just the hormones im sure. :) I was never that "showy and sweet" to my husband until I got pregnant. Then when i finally found out i am on the way, I looove being with him, even his snorring at night looks cute suddenly. Every pregnancy is different, but its alway have something to do with the pregnancy. Talk to your OB with your husband so he would understand you still love him and it is just your hormones changing ;) good luck
2007-12-05 02:30:05 · answer #6 · answered by Sexy Mama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could not stand my hubby when I was pregnant. It will go away eventually. I was like that until I went on bed rest and I had to depend on him so much. Don't feel too bad, your body is going through so many changes and he should understand. Happy pregnancy!
2007-12-05 02:09:05 · answer #7 · answered by SophiaIsDueAugust26 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I want to kill my husband and it should be legal because he's SO FREAKING ANNOYING!!! I've even thought of creative ways to dispose the body...mainly by cooking him up and feeding to his mother. Hopefully it'll get better but at the moment all I want to do is beat him with a fish net. He thinks it's really funny and loves to get on my nerves- which makes it worse! :P I think it would be a pretty good trade off though...I get the baby and he gets death!
2007-12-05 03:35:06 · answer #8 · answered by Shiningami_Gurl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal and won't necessarily happen with every pregnancy you have. It will go away but may not go away until you have your baby.
Just remember that he is also going through changes of his own with you being pregnant and how would you feel if the situation were reversed?
2007-12-05 02:10:52 · answer #9 · answered by New England Babe 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OH the first time i was preggers i hated my partner lol i slept in the spare room for the last 6 months because i didnt even want to be in bed with him. I love him again now lol
2007-12-05 02:13:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋