I'm homosexual and I tried meeting a girl through internet since I can't meet anywhere else homosexual women. So I took a look at some sites and I realised that everything there are advertised in their most vulgar side? What if I don't want to have a ''hot'' relationship but a meaningfull one( meeting someone off the internet is out of the question considering I can't find homosexual women anywhere where I live).
2007-12-05 01:16:10 · 6 answers · asked by nikkya8 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You don't want to meet Ladies on the internet. You need to find them locally -- and *yes* you can. You just have to know where. Check your local art galleries, your local New Age gathering places/stores; Unitarian churches are one place Lesbian and Homosexual folks are welcome to worship, Coffee shops, a gay bar. We're not going to be wearing signs saying "Hi I'm a lesbian", especially if you're in a small town. I've been married to my partner for 27 years and I blend in so well you can't tell unless I wear my funny hats and ankle bells.
You CAN find some one. You just have to look and you an find them locally. You deserve someone good and loving. Where are you, child? You can't be in the middle of nowheres.
2007-12-05 02:04:28 · answer #1 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
It depends on the websites you are going to. There are actually several for women who are not seeking a "sex-only" relationship, you just need to be more diligent in your search. Also try the phone chat lines(yeah they can be a bit crude as well) but you do find people who are mature enough to hold a decent conversation. Also be mindful of what you are telling people. I find it's very helpful to let them know what I"m NOT looking for so they will know quite early on if they have a chance or not.
2007-12-05 09:23:23 · answer #2 · answered by phree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some meat market ads are just that ... vulgar. Others try to make themselves appear classy. Ha!
In my opinion, the Internet has brought "whoring games" into a whole new diminsion.
Try to find someone who lives near you, in your town. Be patient. We are everywhere.
Best of luck!
2007-12-05 10:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I have noticed that as well...It's kind of silly to me because we(the gay community) are always trying to gain acceptance and understanding from others, yet many gay men and women are very vulgar and revolve around sex...I agree with every word you said..and I hope you find someone:)
2007-12-05 09:20:38 · answer #4 · answered by butterbuttergood4u 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
look for places where there are homosexuals, im sure there are many people but they dont wanna get out of the closet
take care
2007-12-05 09:21:59 · answer #5 · answered by 41R4M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best advise is something I practice myself.....
I don't go to a bar to meet men because the only guys you meet there are the kind that hang around bars......make sense?
I hope you find someone special
2007-12-05 09:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by Cathryn 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋