Hi,
when I met my husband I was really sweet to him and do anything for him but after I had my baby I have been so mean to him always buggin him, and I have gotten to the point where I cant stand him and we fight to much, there time when I had felt like slapping him, and there's time when I feel like he's cheating on me but deep inside I know he's not! I dont always want to see the truth and I always feel that I am right! Thank you!!!
2007-12-03 23:06:43 · 10 answers · asked by Ursula M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I had my baby 10 months ago!
2007-12-03 23:17:08 · update #1
maybe you have post partum depression, and instead of taking it out on baby its husband...I would seek a professional opinion about this matter, hormonal imbalances can do whacky things to people's otherwise sweet personalities. Good luck
2007-12-04 00:05:01 · answer #1 · answered by Brittney 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It must be a hormone thing. I hear everything changes when you have a kid. Try to make time for the two of you so you can rekindle that love you once had. Let a family member or someone take care of the baby and you and your husband can have some much needed time together.
2007-12-03 23:33:21 · answer #2 · answered by snowflake311 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes I felt the same way, I felt overwhelmed, because I was recovering from a c-section and try to breastfeed the baby and there wasn't much my husband could do to help, So I did feel angry towards him, but it faded after a little while. I knew it wasn't his fault so I calmed myself down. He would help in other ways.
Been married over 15 years now and happy.
2007-12-04 00:56:10 · answer #3 · answered by Golf Chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of women, after having a baby loses their loving qualities towards their spouses. Sad but true.That's why you'll find many husbands straying and in a few years--- divorce. Want to be part of the statistics?
2007-12-03 23:25:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YIKES!! First - go visit your ob gyn, and see if you have an imbalance going on with your hormones..... if you do, then in a few weeks, you should start to feel much better and not so hostile....if this does not do the trick, find a GOOD family counselor and get you and hubby in NOW.
Am I wasting my time telling you this because you don't want to see the truth and you think you are always right? HUM....then why are you asking us anything? Honey you KNOW you are not right - so go get yourself fixed!
2007-12-03 23:38:54 · answer #5 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You keep down the path you are on and you will be with a child and without a husband
Is that what you want?
2007-12-03 23:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by roadrunner426440 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a baby but it would be understandable that your attitude towards your man would change after giving birth.
xx
2007-12-03 23:11:19 · answer #7 · answered by Mossy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very possible your hormones are completely out of whack since delivering your child. You really should seek the councel of your Doctor and tell him or her what you are experiencing. How long has it been since you had your baby???
2007-12-03 23:14:34 · answer #8 · answered by Racer 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yeah sometimes. And I didn't let him forget he was the one who said, "Trust me." Yeah I trusted him alright and 9 months later was the result of that "trust me" issue.
2007-12-03 23:33:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep I realized he was a bigger baby and divorced him.
2007-12-03 23:09:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋