Gay guys are typically, stereotype or not, effiminate. I do realize that there masculine gay guys as well, but a whole bunch of them are naturally effiminate. I bet you can't find a straight guy who naturally would shriek like a woman and wave their hands ever so girlishly as they say, "FABULOUS", like you commonly see among gay guys. (No offense v^^v)
Now the question is, how about bi-sexual men? Are they just like normal straight guys (in general)? Since bi-men also want to attract women, I'm kinda under the impression that bi-men would be rather masculine. But I honestly don't know cause I've never met one. Are there bi-men out there who naturally act out as effiminate as gay guys do? I'm not being judgemental in anyway and genuenly want to know. I'm personally attracted to masuline men, but I've not had the luck of meeting a masculine gay guy. So I'm considering bi-sexual men instead. But if bi-sexual men are also effeminate, I would be wasting my time so.....
2007-12-03 20:41:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
This just my personal preference, I can't help it. I totally respect everyone for whatever they are. I'm just not sexually attracted to effeminate guys.
2007-12-03 20:43:16 · update #1
Without reading the entire long followup the answer is - Yes, they are masculine, feminine and everything in between just like everyone else depending on what role they are playing at the moment, just like everyone else.
2007-12-03 20:45:23 · answer #1 · answered by Mike1942f 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm pretty masculine. ( now that I think about it; I'm extremely masculine. not many people know I'm bi. unless I tell them. although my buddy doug; who is gay, could tell right away. when I asked him how he knew; he said I had a tell. Evidently straight guys don't look each other in the eyes very often when they're talking.)
Even when I'm feeling froggy and want to be on the recieving end of some baloney pony; I don't get all feminine, but that's just me.
There are effiminate straight men, there are masculine gay men, and there are just about everything of everyone in between.
2007-12-04 04:47:18 · answer #2 · answered by Mister Ambulance Driver 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Even when I'm stirring the boiled oats and dancing to Bette Midler tunes I'm quite masculine. Granted, I adjust myself in front of my guests..just to add an extra ounce of straightness to my bi-ness.
2007-12-04 05:38:26 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Y*G*L ♥ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
as a practicing bisexual man, i can only speak for myself. i'm not effeminate at all. just your normal every day type of guy. and the guys i have been with, none of them are effeminate either. can't say as i've even met any effeminate gays either. seems like they are regular type guys also.
2007-12-04 09:14:02 · answer #4 · answered by safety dawg 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not all gay guys are feminine some are definitly masculine. same goes for bi guys. everyone is different.
2007-12-04 06:18:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I suppose it would depend on each man. Usually the younger they are, they seem more feminine. But it truly depends on the person and their influence and environment.
2007-12-04 04:43:17 · answer #6 · answered by somewherelovers 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Like all men, there is a range of mannerisms and behaviors.
2007-12-04 04:54:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think they are both...mostly feminine tho being metrosexual or emo
2007-12-04 04:43:55 · answer #8 · answered by Adam S. 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋