is it just so easy to just say..okay, they dont feel the same. I must move on??
if so, think again, you have really worshipped this person for so long, thought about them everyday, worked hard for them, etc.
how do you just "move on"??
2007-12-03 18:52:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
REALLY?????????
2007-12-03 18:52:44 · update #1
HOW?? HOW??? HOW???
I JUST WANT TO STUDY THE REST OF MY LIFE THIS SUBJECT NOW!!!
2007-12-03 18:53:31 · update #2
SHE DID INDICATE, MAYBE TEASINGLY, THAT SHE REALLY DID LIKE ME. I JUST MAYBE AM TOO SERIOUS. I DONT KNOW.
2007-12-03 18:55:10 · update #3
I HATE JOKERS AND TEASERS, DONT YOU????
2007-12-03 18:55:34 · update #4
i don't know what to tell you, except that it's hard. there's a lot of hard things in life. that's one of them.
2007-12-03 18:55:12 · answer #1 · answered by EnRhage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard, but your just have to take it one day at a time. It will get easy with time. Its hard when you think about the fact that they will no longer be in your life, but you have to try and remove items that remind you off this person and think positively knowing that you will in time get over them. (easily said that done though)
2007-12-03 18:56:20 · answer #2 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know i never got over the person i was in love with. we dated for a while and then broke up and remaned friends for 2 years now, but the thing thats really making my love for him go away is the fact that he's not the same person i once knew, but time really does play a huge role in it, the less time u spend with them the less u'll being to think of them, not in the begining, but u'll eventually start to focus on other girls and then eventually she'll be outta ur head
2007-12-03 19:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by 1DisneyNut 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i hv loved this one guy since we were in the first grade, then when we were 24 we were officially dating, then somehow we drifted apart n i asked for the break up.
the first few weeks were hard to cope with. i burnt all the letters he sent me n journal entries i have on him. then i wrote many letters as if i was giving them to him, saying how i felt n everything, then i just burnt them. i cant listen to any songs that i like that i hv dedicated to him, but i just listen until i cant cry anymore. that was how i know i could move on
2007-12-03 20:03:29 · answer #4 · answered by grinning goblin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time helps make it easier. Talking to a family member or a trusted friend who actually CARES also helps. Good luck.
2007-12-03 19:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One cure.
Make up your mind.
Get over it.If She\he doesn't care-you shouldn't too.
It's hard.Ask me.
But what you need is a Will.
You can do this.
And hey,there may be someone else,waiting for you.
It's NOT end of the world.
*Good luck*
2007-12-03 19:10:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just part of life that we all have to go through. Give it time & try to keep yourself busy. Stay in contact w/ family & friends! :)
2007-12-03 18:57:39 · answer #7 · answered by ♥bigmamma♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard, but you just gotta slowly erase them from your mind. It isn't gonna happen over night, but you just gotta meet new people, and forget about those old skeletons in your closet. If ya wanna chat, my e-mail is beartooth338@yahoo.com
2007-12-03 18:55:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it takes time, surround yourself with goodness, and friends, be thankful for what you have and realize, this was simply a chapter in your book, you still have time to write more chapters. so get going.
2007-12-03 18:58:28 · answer #9 · answered by Meg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its best not to be possesive about love,freedom is pre-requisite for love,u have to see what makes ur love happy rather than seeing ur requirement, if ur love is happy if she wants to be free so be it, she will be in ur arms if ur love has the strength
2007-12-03 19:32:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋