Can somebody PLEASE please define the meaning of the word Love???

Question

What is this Love everybody keeps talking about and making a big deal out of it? Is it something we feel, something we do. Is it spontaneous or self-inflicted. Are there different kinds of love? Does it come and go and all we have to do is sit and wait until it goes away? Does it cause pain and then you heal?? Does it have physical symptoms like tightening and discomfort in the chest area? Is it a chemical reaction or a physical attraction? I wanna hear it from somebody who's feeling it right this moment cause later it might go away right? RIGHT?? Oh I hope you give me some good answers cause otherwise I might as well kill myself. Is loving somebody and being in love with somebody one and the same. Does love EXIST?

Let's put it this way. The less the answers I get the more the chances it never existed and it’s just another vocabulary word.

Angel, thank you for your comments, well taken into high consideration. I was taught Love from God but unfortunately cannot find that specific form of it anywhere in the real/fake temporary world we're living in. I try and give plenty of "Love" of whatever could be love according to my personal criteria but even if I ever find the True Love, will it last? For how long? Until the first fight? Until the first argument? When does Love expire?

neutral stick a knife into my heart see if I feel anything

Answer 1

The definition of LOVE i believe u r looking for is that super unique bond between a man and a woman who find one another desirable in every way. These two individuals share an emotional attachment of strong affection for each other yielding a bond stronger than any other force known to mother nature, but it is not a palpable bond but something each person feels for the other. Once this bond is formed it causes some sort of chemical reaction within each of these two individuals, and, ultimately, this reaction takes the form of causing each person in this relationship to remain with one another. Maybe, just maybe, this Love can last a life time as these "chemicals" never leave the body since there is no true organic source of them in the first place. In TRUE LOVE i believe these two individuals have essentially bonded into one person allowing themselves to share one another in every manner of life. The fact that u r actually asking this question reveals its existence.

Answer 2

You sound very disappointed in what you thought was love. Being in love and loving someone are not the same thing. A person's physical attributes and the strong sexual chemistry that comes from this attraction can lead to mind-blowing sex, but this is where many people err: they mistake great sex for love. To love someone is to know someone beyond their surface qualities: their inner character. And it takes awhile to discover that. The physical will draw you, but you need to check out the character beneath the shiny surface. In the final analysis love is self-acceptance. And if you achieve self-acceptance, you'll discover a great love relationship with yourself. From here on, no matter how many disappointing love affairs you have (because as you probably know, you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find the prince), you will always end up with the one you love best, which is yourself. And when the prince does finally show up, you'll feel a sense of coming home, like this person is your second skin. Love does exist and it begins with you.

Answer 3

Love happens when
one person reaches out to another
trusts, comforts, believes in that person,
hopes the best for that person and makes a special difference that no one else can make

Love does not expect anything in return
Love will not harm if they cheat on you
Love is a selfless act
Love Needs Sacrifies
Love is forever
People in true Love are cheerful
Love has no other forms.. its only ONE
Love doesnt cause pain, it heals..

there is no such thing as.. Iove you this much or that much, you just love!

well Love exist but people are confused and selfish these day, pls dont kill yourself, I like you, life is beautiful, I am sure you will start finding life interesting soon
Good days have come to you!

Answer 4

I am very much impressed to see your question. Your question itself is so deep that it shows how much mental churning you have done on this subject. I am forced to read the question again and again.... not because I did not understand the question ... but to appreciate your thinking. I feel that you are not so im-matured as you mentioned in your last before sentence. Still i doub't whether its a question from a scholorly mind or from an innocent mind.

Any way, I express the view as follows in essence ...

The real 'WE' are not physical ... WE are meta-physical entities inside this physical body. The real self identity is some times called as spirit or soul or atman or roohh etc. Just as water is the main constitute of the physical body so also there are some main things in the 'WE'.

They are : Peace, Happiness, Love, Purity etc. Our whole life is based on providing of fulfilling the above components. However, due to the excessive body consciousness and ignorace we have forgot our real identity and are trying to satisfy through physical factors ... which in turn in long term is felt as mechanical life and there by resulting in the diminishing of the 'real components of the inner self'.

Just as we feel thirsty when ever water in the body is exhausted.... similarily when ever the inner self is exhausted with Peace, Love, Happiness etc. then we deeply feel the urge to fill it up with some way or other. But the tricky issue is that we need to know this way.

Just imagine if some is feeling thirsty and instead of pure water if they takes COKE or some other artificial drink.... what will happen ?? They temporarily feel the satisfaction but the body is not getting what it actually needed and so again the urge for water arrisies. So one needs to know that pure water is the best for thirst bodies.

So also when ever we are lost in this wild world, we are forgetting real components of life and are trying to take the support of the artificial factors and so the problems arrises.

Coming to your question, Love is one of the main component of our inner self. Although there are many types of it , they are mainly (i) Physical (ii) Non-Physical. True Love is based on non physical aspects because we are actually 'non physical' ((inner self)).

Love is a type of pure emotion which is in general wrongly attributed to physical bodies or deeds.

God is the ocean of love, the more we are close the supreme the more we will understand the depth of love.

Our every thought has its own effect on human body and will enable the body to produce its related chemicals in the body. For example if some one is in fear or shock then tears, sweat, hair standing, eye reddishness, body coldness etc. may happen. ..... similarily when love emerges the rate of blood flow changes and it effects the heart beat which is the centre of the blood circulation. That is why heart symbol is shown as love symbol.

For the last sentence .... I suggest you experience the divine love atleast for some period and you will see a lot of change in your every aspect.

Do not think of killing yourself ... rather kill the negativity and ignorance inside you... it is the real love towards you. Start loving your ''real inner self'' and ''eternal supreme''' then you will see that the whole world will be loveful towards you. You will be in a position to donate love rather than in a position of begging love.

Be a queen of TRUE LOVE ..... all the best

If you feel of communicating anything ... then express in reply or comment

Answer 5

I think love is when people trust, and are always there for each other. It's when you don't care about what othere peple say about what you love. And mostly, it's about having extreme happiness just with that one person. And people above me, a definiton doesn't mean an acronym.

Answer 6

Generally there are three kinds of love that I know. These are family, Friendship and bonding loves. Back to your question, I can define love as caring, supporting, giving, forgiving, protecting and sharing various elements to one another. Socially, there are many different elements of love that can sustain its survival for long period of time. These elements are loyalty, reliquishing powers, commitments, reliability, honesty and many more.

Answer 7

"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always perseveres